SomaliNet Forums

Does a man have to Support his wife's family financially? I know it is akhiyaarnimo, or duco or sadaqo but What if he does not want to. Do you think The wife should fight with him for refusing to send her family Money. I mean marrying a wife is not like renting a car where you have to pay the owner a rental instalement every month. I don't think our fathers used to Support our Mother's family financially. I remember my ayeeyo telling me they were given something when they visit the family and they are going home and that was beautiful. it is called Gacaltooyo and it was just what the family could avoid at that time. I also remember the family of the girl sending some gift back called dhibaad when the girl visits her family. What is up with this new " waa in anigana walaasheey $100 udirtaah hadii kale waa ifuree shit"

How come no one wants to answer my question.

Sxb saladu sidey kuqabato aalotukada.

hilal,

Waxaan kawadaah sxb hadii uusan rabin in uu lacag udiro gabadha reerkeeda, miyuusan Xaq Ulahayn ilaa waa xoolihiisiiye. wuxu yarad maaha waa contract joogto ah every months.

Is $100 alot of money?

Navy9 wrote:Is $100 alot of money?

that was just an example sxb. I am talking about any amount that you don't want to send.

If your wife wants to send money to her folks on a monthly basis, let her work and politely tell her that you aint a milking cow or was it a walking atm!

Navy9 wrote:If your wife wants to send money to her folks on a monthly basis, let her work and politely tell her that you aint a milking cow or was it a walking atm!

So you mean it is not compulsory if he does nto want for him to send money to her folks right?

Why would anyone do that.... unless they live backhome

well i think u have to sxb because waa nafaqad

nin kaa calacal badan waligey ma arkin.

This is why as a woman you should always have your own money. Can you imagine ninkaada oo dhibsanaayo your own hooyo iyo aabo? Ilahey hanaga koriyo waxaas, amin

Minneapolis Mayor wrote:Does a man have to Support his wife's family financially? I know it is akhiyaarnimo, or duco or sadaqo but What if he does not want to. Do you think The wife should fight with him for refusing to send her family Money. I mean marrying a wife is not like renting a car where you have to pay the owner a rental instalement every month. I don't think our fathers used to Support our Mother's family financially. I remember my ayeeyo telling me they were given something when they visit the family and they are going home and that was beautiful. it is called Gacaltooyo and it was just what the family could avoid at that time. I also remember the family of the girl sending some gift back called dhibaad when the girl visits her family. What is up with this new " waa in anigana walaasheey $100 udirtaah hadii kale waa ifuree shit"

Islamically, the man has to support his wife....laakin you don't have to support her relatives although refusing to help out your sister in law doesn't give the right impression. I mean, what sort of stingy bugger refuses to send a measly $100 to his sister in law?....I mean seriously, that's just silly especially when a guy I know sent £10,000 to his sister in law. Fix up.

eyes-only wrote:

Minneapolis Mayor wrote:Does a man have to Support his wife's family financially? I know it is akhiyaarnimo, or duco or sadaqo but What if he does not want to. Do you think The wife should fight with him for refusing to send her family Money. I mean marrying a wife is not like renting a car where you have to pay the owner a rental instalement every month. I don't think our fathers used to Support our Mother's family financially. I remember my ayeeyo telling me they were given something when they visit the family and they are going home and that was beautiful. it is called Gacaltooyo and it was just what the family could avoid at that time. I also remember the family of the girl sending some gift back called dhibaad when the girl visits her family. What is up with this new " waa in anigana walaasheey $100 udirtaah hadii kale waa ifuree shit"

Islamically, the man has to support his wife....laakin you don't have to support her relatives although refusing to help out your sister in law doesn't give the right impression. I mean, what sort of stingy bugger refuses to send a measly $100 to his sister in law?....I mean seriously, that's just silly especially when a guy I know sent £10,000 to his sister in law. Fix up.

abaayo it is ok to help your inlaws Sometimes but you can't force aman to bring them up as if he fathers them. Bal maasagaa dhalay markuu korinaayo her sisters and brothers. To make it worst, The woman gets mad if that does not happen and threaten the husband with a divorce. It is as if he rented her and would have to pay the instalement or the she would betowed away.

MM, her family is obviously very important to her and if she's a red blooded women.....she wouldn't stand for her husband refusing to send money to her sister especially if he has it. Some people would see that as disrespectful.

Mind you it is usually women who send money back so your scenario is quite rare....