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Young boys who are corrupted by these men who are obsessed with more than two wives...They think it is a must to marry than one wife...Subxaana Allaah...

Where in the Quran it says" It is a must that a man marries more than one wife?" Infact Allaah SWT is warning in his own way about polygamy :

"Wa in khiftum Allaa Tacdilu Fawaaxidata."..Allaah says...

So tell me, is there any Somali man we know that did Caddaala? Never happened..Everyone dumps the first one who struggled with him..probably started with a hard life like Askari iwm but as soon as he is promoted to Colonel he wants to change the old women..and brings a fresh 15 yrs old whom he builds new house etc..

It is scary to see young boys at the age of 17 and 24 thinking of marrying more than one wife...

Ofcourse there are few, very few exceptions.....But that is insignificant...

Kambuli theres nothing wrong with having high ambition. Its good in a way, and since aduunkii ay naagihii ragii kabateen, waa in naagahan suuqa laga asturo, oo the somali population la badiyo.

Kambuli, i can be more influential to these kids than 50 old qabiilste perverts so worry not my friend, at the end of the day they'll know that if one woman is good enough for The-Screw, its good enough for them.

eedo horta who you're are to detemine what is 3adil or not?
if all the aprties involved are accepted, who you're to make it haram what Allah made it halal?
and if they dont make it 3adil Allah will deal with them after here as prophet said: they will come hereafter they one shoulder lower than another for not making 3adil between wivies.
after no ahkaam makes it haram or forbit as long the one he marries accept it.

marka eedo stop making it haraam and it's only men's fault. no one forcing the second wife to marry a married man.
myself i'll marry more than one wife inshallah.

WOOOW

Kambuli

Sheekadan maanta way kugu balaaratey ma istidhi....Raga badankooda xabad kaliya ayey guursadan.Waaney jiran kuwa mid kale isku rara...afartan xaywaan ee meshan isugu yemide ee xabad kaliya soo xareen karen dhag ha oo dhigin.

Afar naagood inu ninku guursan karo ilaahy baa xalaal ka dhigay ee wax xun ha ka dhigin.Hadi kale waa danbaabiy.

Kambuli nimankii baa Ilaahay daba dhigay. Ina adeer hadduu hal nin ku xumeeyay ma ragga oo dhan baad moodi inay sidaa wada yihiin?

Xitaa Sheekhii yaraa bay ka cadhaysiisay maanta oo waa kaa seeftiisii yarayd galka kala baxay.

Kambuli,

Here is a 28yrs old man who is married to 2 Wives and do Cadaalad.

I devide My paycheck into 3 direct deposits.

40% - to one wife's bank
40% to the other wife's bank
20% goes to me to send to my hooyo and aabo

I stay In one house every day.

They both have my cell phone so, anytime one needs me she calls coz the day time is mine and not for any of them. they only own the night time.

So Where is the Injustice I am doing?

habo hal naag nin rag kuma filno. The ayah is starting with 2 then 3 then 4 Then Inqiftum means for those cannot afford. It is like if you miss Sowm, first you are suppose to first but If you can't then yo feed people. So Allah only made optional for the weak ones to Just have one oo uu weesada kudhawrto inta uu zinaysan lahaa. So basically having one wife is the last option.

Mathna , wathulaatha, warubaac for the real men

I don't know about you guys but for me is a kind of generic. My father had 3, My grandfather 4 and I have 2 so Maybe my son can go down to one

Sir-Luggoyo wrote:Kambuli nimankii baa Ilaahay daba dhigay. Ina adeer hadduu hal nin ku xumeeyay ma ragga oo dhan baad moodi inay sidaa wada yihiin?

Xitaa Sheekhii yaraa bay ka cadhaysiisay maanta oo waa kaa seeftiisii yarayd galka kala baxay.

ader wa runta, eedo kambuli wey ka bad baday.lol
naaguhu miya la qasbey? so ayagu ma ogolanin , in ay ninka naagta qaba goorsado?

Screw,

Thanks walaal Ilaahay waxaan kaaga baryey mid aad u qiimo badan..dhinac walba oo ku qaboojisa oo aad ku raaxaysto oo ku qancisa...


Folks,

You are forgetting that we are allowed to say no for polygamy before we sign the contract(Nikaax)...Alxamdu lilaah..

This is not what I am saying because I am in the cyber world..It is what I preach every day... There is no doubt about Allaah's Aaya that you can marry one, two or three but what men are ignoring is the next Aaya..

Waxaase cid walba iigu daran...Hanad..Kulahaa..Inqiftum waxaa weeye those who can't afford.. Ilaahay

Hyper,

Bal horta tii kowaad keen...

Helwaa,

Ha ugu tegin gabadh kale ninkeeda haddeerba

kambuli wrote:
You are forgetting that we are allowed to say no for polygamy before we sign the contract(Nikaax)...Alxamdu lilaah..

Are you serious, never heard of just a think, are you are a modern ismalic femanist.....

This is not on walahi, gabdhaha hawaadin inaadeer

Kambuli, it's either that or the American way.......have a gurlfriend on the side

looyan its true, a girl can declare that if he marries another, their marriage is null and void according to the niikax agreement

anyway kambuli, the problem is you and a lot of people on here are trashing an institution allah SWT made halal

the one thing you can trash is how men abuse the system and don't use it for noble purpose

guurka ma xumee, waxaa xun nin naag qaba oo naag kale meel ku qarsada. micnaha, hadii ee u xalaal tahay waa wax la gartay lakiin in uu ka qaraabto aa? taasaan ka soo horjeeda anigu

Marry 1 if it is not enough marry 2 if not enough marry 3 if not enough marry 4

ladies get out of here with ur calaacal