When the kids dont grow up with their grandparents, some kids could find it bit difficult to understand them and vice versa.
Long time ago, my mom took us to Somalia for the summer, my younger sister (5 yrs at that time) had pictured ayeeyo a certain way, an ayeeyo who is modern, who drives her car and who will be taking us to places. But ayeeyo was very maskin woman, who had a very long tusbaax on her neck and who all the time stayed in doors either doing ibadah or asleep. My sista refused that ayeeyo be her grandma

, my sista was very stubborn kid.
Anyways, later on ayeeyo came to egypt and they both loved each other and she was ayeeyo's assistant. It takes time to get to know each other. It doesnt mean because you love someone that everyone else has to love him/her the way you do!