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I was wondering......
Posted: Fri May 08, 2009 6:19 pm
by suga_n_spice
so lately i keep hearing about this new book that some guy wrote on "intimacy and marriage" for married couples. i didn't really read the book, but i saw it used in two different shows. so im guessin it really exist's. anyhow, couples have to have sex for 30 days straight. every night none stop. i guess the purpose is to bring couple's closer and make them more comfortable with each other. then i thought, if i were in my late 30's and 40's and this would help my husband and I's relationship, i would actually be willing to do it.
do u think something like this would help or work for Somali Couple's?! and how many of u are willing to participate?!
might I add, after 10 days someone in the relationship was gettin tired. so males, as much as this might sound like a great idea, u'll get tired eventually

Re: I was wondering......
Posted: Fri May 08, 2009 6:22 pm
by Murax
Soomali couples ma kala xishoodan. I spend a night or two with a Somali couple in they're '40s and the Guy is unleashing machine gun farts constantly, and the lady wey candhuufeysa all over the place
Re: I was wondering......
Posted: Fri May 08, 2009 6:31 pm
by suga_n_spice
ewww, saxiib. it's not exactly about screwing each other. it should bring couple's together. like they have to want to be together, share their thoughts. u know a real connection. i honestly, don't think this will work for Somali couple's due to inconvenience. most of the husband's are probably always gone.
Re: I was wondering......
Posted: Fri May 08, 2009 6:34 pm
by MrPrestige
shaqolaan

Re: I was wondering......
Posted: Fri May 08, 2009 6:35 pm
by Murax
suga_n_spice wrote:
ewww, saxiib. it's not exactly about screwing each other. it should bring couple's together. like they have to want to be together, share their thoughts. u know a real connection. i honestly, don't think this will work for Somali couple's due to inconvenience. most of the husband's are probably always gone.
Soomali waxaas ma yaqaanan take that hadal to Lascanood they'll laugh at you
Ducaysane,
Siciid Harti have You going crazy
Re: I was wondering......
Posted: Fri May 08, 2009 6:36 pm
by Sagaashan
suga for this to work, its gotta be true for both people. mida kale, there surely will be breaks, i am guessing 15 days of for the girl
Re: I was wondering......
Posted: Fri May 08, 2009 6:37 pm
by Hyperactive
that may work for gaalo, but i rather mawada wa rahmah than that thing every night.
if no respect, no amount of that thing would make differences.
Re: I was wondering......
Posted: Fri May 08, 2009 6:40 pm
by suga_n_spice
Murax,
it's xalaal saxiib, and if it's gonna make the marriage improve. why not do it?! it's actually a great idea as far as im concerned. after i come from lascanood, im gonna head down to gedo

15 days of what?! dang. it doesn't take that long u know?! 6 max. but ur right saxiib, the couple has to be willing 100% and like i said the couple does get bored with it after a while.
hyper, what's "mawada wa rahmah"

Re: I was wondering......
Posted: Fri May 08, 2009 6:40 pm
by Firefly
Sagaashan:- 15 days?

That's like two weeks, it's only a week walaal.
SnS:- I'd never buy that book..

Re: I was wondering......
Posted: Fri May 08, 2009 6:41 pm
by Sagaashan
Firefly
are you saying woman are down only a week of the month. where is the diversity.
Re: I was wondering......
Posted: Fri May 08, 2009 6:42 pm
by SummerRain
Suga,
I stand by what I said lastnight.

Re: I was wondering......
Posted: Fri May 08, 2009 6:43 pm
by Sagaashan
suga and firefly. there was this one girl that never missed a friday prayer. it was shocking. i know its not eid too

Re: I was wondering......
Posted: Fri May 08, 2009 6:44 pm
by Sagaashan
Ismahan123 wrote:Suga,
I stand by what I said lastnight.

where in the mss

Re: I was wondering......
Posted: Fri May 08, 2009 6:47 pm
by Nabeela
Lol@15 days
Suga, this kind of talk is considered a taboo in our culture.

Re: I was wondering......
Posted: Fri May 08, 2009 6:48 pm
by suga_n_spice
ff,
i haven't read the book abaa. lakiin i saw it on two shows.
i don't even know what it's called
sagaashan, 15 days is half the month saxiib. what will we be doing that whole time?!

btw saxiib, how can she not have ever missed bisinkee?! maybe she was just there sittin out and just listening to the qudba while u guyz prayed!
ismahan, i dont know to say, but i hope that changes.
nabeela, it's taboo, but what if it works and changes everything?! that would be a miracle
