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The term xalaal dating is becoming the new trend here in t-dot, you'd see a hijabi girl dating, and you always get the same answer "macno ma laha, waa iska xalaal dating, wax xun ma sameeyneeno" some people are using this term as an excuse to date, even though they know there is no such a thing, then again how the heck do you get to know a person before you marry them? bring someone along for the ride?

Nabeela wrote:*"inspired by another thread*

The term xalaal dating is becoming the new trend here in t-dot, you'd see a hijabi girl dating, and you always get the same answer "macno ma laha, waa iska xalaal dating, wax xun ma sameeyneeno" some people are using this term as an excuse to date, then again how the heck do you get to know a person before you marry them? bring someone along for the ride?

every one needs some action , some think they can sheet God others like me think we can cheat but we do it and say forgive us lord .

Nabz,

I suggest you approach your parents, state your intention to get married and ask them to find you a suitable husband.

If not, you risk meeting an Cawar, Luggoyo, Shaamboo or Abdiwahab who will corrupt your maqabiyo self.

sxb haka nixin nabs hahah

What about Xalaal wasmo!

Xalaal Isbaarona waan maqlay

Iminka mindhaa wax walba Xalaal uunbaa laga hormarin

I had halal sex even though we are not married

lol @ halaal dating.

My dear somalinetters...
There is nothing called xalaal dating...if u wanna marry...tell your parents about your intention so they can find some one for you...thats their job according to our Diin...but SO Saadly most of them expect us to find Mr right by ourselvs...tell them whats going outside tell them that there i too many bad ppl outside and that you can not distinguish between them...im sure they will be able to help you...

djibsomali wrote:I had halal sex even though we are not married

xalaal sex!!!!ur not married?????

sweeti wrote:My dear somalinetters...
There is nothing called xalaal dating...if u wanna marry...tell your parents about your intention so they can find some one for you...thats their job according to our Diin...but SO Saadly most of them expect us to find Mr right by ourselvs...tell them whats going outside tell them that there i too many bad ppl outside and that you can not distinguish between them...im sure they will be able to help you...

You are right. I jokingly told my mom that long time ago, the respond i got was, I found your father and you need to find your man, are you a handicapped?

Navy9,

In this market, good luck. Its ugly out there.

Put aside all jokes

Xalal dating is possible,if two persons want to know each other, I think unless they are cheap and not decent, they can do it...What can get wrong if a potential couple can have a dinner in a restaurant? Or in their parent's house? Or in their friends house?

It is all about how strong and well raised one is...If on the other hand some are cheap then they will jump into illegal touching and stuff...

I don't like the idea that one's parents do the choice...The parents are not the ones that are getting married...So they may give a hint or give an advice here and there..but the choice should be left for the girl or the boy...