Why are lots of our people spiteful/malicious

[Spursman]

Isnt it love for your brother what you love for yourself in the deen but lots of our people are spiteful and xasid revengeful subhannallah also we need to learn to forgive and forget as its peace of soul caadi mahaa. Life is short we cant keep holding grudges it ant good for the health.

[surrender]

because ddintu sifiican noomaysa galin!

[Spursman]

Also jealousy some have.

[Qumanyoo]

for real subhanallah ..
ive learned to let allah deal with and not take revenge .. as much as something may anger you .. waa xaaraam .. live and let live ..

[Spursman]

Qumanyoo thats it walalo patience and sabar is the key somaha.

[Tha Diva]

good point...i personally find it hard to forgive someone but try my bestest to..but i can never forget...its always in the back of my mind...is that haram..eventho i cant actually help it?

xoxo

[Spursman]

Tha Diva i dont think its haram as forgiving is the most important walal most people forgive but dont forget anyways its human nature deeh.