Would anyone marry a guy or girl who can''t have children?

[foolxume2005]

I have recently realised that whilst people like me and you are busy finding partners and getting married there is a taboo for discussion of people who can not have children within our society, especially young girls who are diagnosed from a young age. I find this even more disturbing because many people who can not have children have to spend their lives single and lonely, but also put up with people talking about them and creating stories as to why they are single. There is a girl who knows she can not have children since school, however now being at a marriagable age, she doesn't want to lie about her problem and be deceptive, but she has been rejected by all rishtas once they find out her condition and she is simply devastated. Whilst it is up to families to decide what is best, what should girls in her position do? Who is willing to marry these girls?

[Boqor__Daarod]

i would marry why not? and if u want children then marry a second wife problem solved in deen 4 wives are allowed.

[Keyse_0208]

its not in my family tradition

[shaamboo]

its not in my family tradition

to marry a woman ?

well my friend u can always move to vermont

[Xaaji_Xundjuf]

maybe it depends if i love her a lot.

[Ka darag]

in all honesty , no.

[sadeboi]

It quite hard, and realistically speaking I do not know what I would do unless placed in the situation. First, I am not the type to have multiple wives. Secondly, I always said I will adopt at least one Somali child. Thirdly, You really can't say. I want children of my own but if I really love someone it is different. Like I don't think I would burden myself if from the beginning the woman told me she can't have children, but if we both were unaware that we couldn't have children, then after failed attempts we find out it is her who can't reproduce, then its get gray. I would stay with her, but I would love my own children.

One of my macalins in dugsi, has been married for 12 years almost to a women who can't have children. Big time akhwaan and everything, I don't think he has remarried eithier. So ya never know.

[American-Suufi]

if you cant have natural children get ajar and adopt them. millions of somali kids are orphans and starving to death.

i would marry and adopt 3 kids from 3 different continents.

[Kismaayo21]

give the Quruxleey a chance love her for her not for what she can and cant have.. If I was in a relationship with a woman and she cant have kids I would tell her the truth I would explain to her that my family name needs to excist until yawmiil Qiyamah and that I love her and that I will marry another woman but I cant let her go so I want both of em.. and I would spend equal time with both I kno its gonna be hard but hey what needs to be done needs to be done

[Advo]

I wouldnt mind at all, lakinse I would be devasted if I found out my seeds are vegetable.

[Basra-]

Sir Lug....no -- as a somali girl she must have children, otherwise she is useless ma ha? oooops i am sorry.. i meant to address foolxume2005 and not sir lug.

[Ka darag]

I wouldnt mind at all, lakinse I would be devasted if I found out my seeds are vegetable.

looooooool i laughed out loud

[Xaaji_Xundjuf]

I wouldnt mind at all, lakinse I would be devasted if I found out my seeds are vegetable.

vegetable wamaxay manay khudrad ahayn iyo wax nocaas ah

[foolxume2005]

Basra thanks for the compliment see , Lugoyo is my role model .

[Babygirl-]

If the guy can't have kids there is nothing between us! i can't marry him, but if it's the girl he could always get a second wife. (am i wrong)