Why Guys Dump Girls They Dig

[AbdiWahab252]

http://lifestyle.msn.com/relationships/ ... d=19563905

1. The Timing Is Off
Women get serious when they meet the right man. Men get serious with whomever we happen to be dating when we're finally ready to settle down. That means after every other aspect of our life is in order — whether it's finishing grad school, finally pulling down a good-size paycheck, owning a car outright — or when our friends start dropping like flies (that's guyspeak for getting married).

But if you catch a guy before he hits that magical stage of his life, then he's liable to bolt — like Patrick,* 28, who dumped Bridgett after two years, then got engaged to the next girl he dated after only 10 months. "When I was with Bridgett, all of my friends were single and I was still an intern with nothing going on in my career. So every time she'd bring up our future together, it felt like she was jumping the gun," he says. "I didn't break up with her because she was wrong for me. I ended it because I didn't want to commit to anyone right then. But by the time I met Elizabeth, I was in a settling-down frame of mind."

3. We're Fixated on the Worst-Case Scenario
From the times you chastise us for leaving a wet towel on the bed to those nights you rip through a pint of fudge ripple without stopping to breathe, we file each incident in a mental folder labeled "Evidence She'll Change for the Worse." We flip through that file whenever we're trying to decide if we want to hang on to the relationship. Blame our married friends who took the plunge before us, but many single guys are hyperaware of what could go wrong down the road.

Even if we're crazy about you now, we panic that you'll pack on the pounds, want sex only once a month and nag us day and night. So we secretly flag certain things we're scared might be a harbinger of bad things to come. "I've seen it happen to too many of my friends," says Elliot, 29. "All they do is complain about how the sex takes a total nosedive after they get serious with a girl. So sometimes, even if the woman I'm dating is a saucy little minx, I freak out and bail."

[AbdiWahab252]

Are You About to Be Jilted?

Signs that your man's getting ready to bail:

His cell phone is always off. He might be spending time with someone he doesn't want you to know about ... or he just doesn't want to make himself available.

He's reluctant to make plans. If he hems and haws about committing to anything — even if it's in the semi-near future — he's thinking about making a break for it.

He's meaner. The passive-aggressive breakup is a guy standby. Some men intentionally turn into a-holes to make sure you break up with them.

He's not into sex. He doesn't want to feel connected to you — or he's getting his needs filled somewhere else.

[kadarre]

[quote="AbdiWahab252"] So every time she'd bring up our future together, it felt like she was jumping the gun,[/quote]


I Dont know i despise those kind of women. Why cant they go with the ''flow''. I hate the ones that have a time line.

AbdiWahab have you seen Otali i miss his stories.

[AbdiWahab252]

Kadarre,

He is now a wadaad and is preaching the merits of the Tahlil of Tahir Aweys and how it can lead you into heaven.

Saxiib, where have you been hiding ? going with the flow is not an option nowdays unless you show that you have no potential aka qeyr masuul.

[kadarre]

I have been keeping myself bussy with studies Sxb. Now I'm relaxing.

''Some men intentionally turn into a-holes to make sure you break up with them''

This is the best method of breaking up with a woman. I tried the mobile trick but then you get private callers.

[AbdiWahab252]

kadarre,

Private calls That is when you put on your Chinese accent:

"Hawoo ?'

"Abdi, war maxa ku dhacey ?"

"You got Wong namba"

"War ciyarta iga jooji Abdi .."

"What you speakin ! You got wong numba..."


As for break up saxiib, they are best done over the phone and right after you found a replacement.

[Ka darag]

[shaamboo]

cabdulwahaab sxb dont give our secrests out

[zulaika]

abdi,

this sounds like something straight out of cosmopolitan mag regarding the relationships of jane's and joe's...tell me again how this relates to farax?

[AbdiWahab252]

Zulaika,

How have you been doing ? Well there are different Faraxs and its unfair to lump them all into one group

[zulaika]

abdi,

i'm doing good...another day...another dollar

well by the tone of the list you posted...yes it pretty safe to lump faraxs outside of its "targeted" audience.