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Ive been asked to marry my cousin
Posted: Wed Jun 10, 2009 1:29 pm
by CoolPoisons
my adeer called me today to marry his daughter, bring her to canada and divorce her
walahi i didnt know how to reply. i told him i will give him an answer next week. i know many somalis do that shiid but i never thought it would happen to me
Re: Ive been asked to marry my cousin
Posted: Wed Jun 10, 2009 1:31 pm
by Babygirl-
Re: Ive been asked to marry my cousin
Posted: Wed Jun 10, 2009 1:32 pm
by kambuli
Coolpoison,
Ma istidhi, xadhigaagii ayaad gacmaha ku sidataa? Ma ogtahay waxan aad hadda ku hadashay inay tahay wax xabsi kuu keeni kara haddaad ku dhaqaaqdo?
Iminka haddaad xitaa si daacad ah isu tidhaahdo gabadh usoo guurso waxaa loo malaynayaa inaad soo gelineysid dalka...Inleyn waadagan internetka kaga dhawaaqay eh
Re: Ive been asked to marry my cousin
Posted: Wed Jun 10, 2009 1:33 pm
by CoolPoisons
babygirl im already married but we wed in america. and i dont believe in forced marriages
Re: Ive been asked to marry my cousin
Posted: Wed Jun 10, 2009 1:34 pm
by FAH1223
Re: Ive been asked to marry my cousin
Posted: Wed Jun 10, 2009 1:35 pm
by Cali_Gaab
Re: Ive been asked to marry my cousin
Posted: Wed Jun 10, 2009 1:38 pm
by CoolPoisons
kambuli wrote:Coolpoison,
Ma istidhi, xadhigaagii ayaad gacmaha ku sidataa? Ma ogtahay waxan aad hadda ku hadashay inay tahay wax xabsi kuu keeni kara haddaad ku dhaqaaqdo?
Iminka haddaad xitaa si daacad ah isu tidhaahdo gabadh usoo guurso waxaa loo malaynayaa inaad soo gelineysid dalka...Inleyn waadagan internetka kaga dhawaaqay eh
kambuli dib u aqri. arintan ma ahan arin aan aqbalay mana aha arin aan so dhoweeyey. dilemma baa ii haya. sidaas awgeed baan idin weydiyey suaasha ama problemka
maxaa talo ah
Re: Ive been asked to marry my cousin
Posted: Wed Jun 10, 2009 1:38 pm
by CoolPoisons
how should i answer to my adeer. i dont want to do it laakin maxa talo ah.
Re: Ive been asked to marry my cousin
Posted: Wed Jun 10, 2009 1:39 pm
by S-D-M
dee kulabeyso qofta
Re: Ive been asked to marry my cousin
Posted: Wed Jun 10, 2009 1:40 pm
by Basra-
Cool is she marehaan like u? It depends ma ha?
Re: Ive been asked to marry my cousin
Posted: Wed Jun 10, 2009 1:40 pm
by CoolPoisons
walahi idinku qosol bey idin tahay laakin buufis baa igu dhacay
Re: Ive been asked to marry my cousin
Posted: Wed Jun 10, 2009 1:41 pm
by Babygirl-
Cali-Gaab how do u know he is not married?
Cool if your wife is kool with it & she is kool with it & looks good go for her..
Re: Ive been asked to marry my cousin
Posted: Wed Jun 10, 2009 1:41 pm
by abdikarim86
do you mean a fake marriage to get her a green card ?
Re: Ive been asked to marry my cousin
Posted: Wed Jun 10, 2009 1:43 pm
by FAH1223
abdikarim86 wrote:do you mean a fake marriage to get her a green card ?
yeah pretty much
Cool, don't do it...tell your adeer sorry but no can do and your life is complicated right now and you're busy and all that other BS
Re: Ive been asked to marry my cousin
Posted: Wed Jun 10, 2009 1:43 pm
by CoolPoisons
Babygirl- wrote:Cali-Gaab how do u know he is not married?
Cool if your wife is kool with it & she is kool with it & looks good go for her..
babygirl walahi im not ready for second wife yet. and its not something i want to do at the moment
thats why i need a good answer to my adeer telling him no without hurting or sounding disrespectful
