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Best advice for a nighmare situation.

Posted: Fri Jun 19, 2009 3:14 pm
by Captain24
A guy i know is going through a crisis. He has already married to this girl and asked her hand, and waiting for their wedding on October this year. The thing is he went out about a month ago and slept with this well known Somali girl, and all of sudden, she's pregnant. He asked her to do an abortion, but she declined and offered him to that they get married(LMAO).

I seriously think this guy will commit suicide, he has been depressed for the past month or so. Any advice for this guy?

Re: Best advice for a nighmare situation.

Posted: Fri Jun 19, 2009 3:18 pm
by HELWAA
Akhas.... :roll:

Re: Best advice for a nighmare situation.

Posted: Fri Jun 19, 2009 3:18 pm
by Somalian_Boqor
Captain24 wrote:A guy i know is going through a crisis. He has already married to this girl and asked her hand, and waiting for their wedding on October this year. The thing is he went out about a month ago and slept with this well known Somali girl, and all of sudden, she's pregnant. He asked her to do an abortion, but she declined and offered him to that they get married(LMAO).

I seriously think this guy will commit suicide, he has been depressed for the past month or so. Any advice for this guy?
I have a feeling that guy is you :lol:

Never the less tell your friend he focked up his life by f-king the other girl and needs to face the consequence that come with it. As they say do the crime and you must do the time.

Plan B is to get the Fuck of the the city, he lives in and restart his life somewhere else and have the girl he loves more over there with him.

Re: Best advice for a nighmare situation.

Posted: Fri Jun 19, 2009 3:20 pm
by Ka darag
WTF
HE GOT HIMSELF INTO THIS MESS...
:x Y THE FOCK IS HE GONNA ASK HER TO HAVE AN ABORTION??????

THAT IS MURDER!!!!!!!!!! SO FIRST THEY HAVE HARAM SEX, THEN HE WANTS TO KILL THE BABY :shock: :shock:

I HEARD OF THIS SIMILAR STORY BUT THE GUY WASNT MARRIED............HE ASKED THE GIRL TO AVE AN ABORTON..SHE SAID NO....HER FAMILY MADE HIM MARRY HER AND THEY NOW LIVE HAPPILY EVER AFTER :roll:

Re: Best advice for a nighmare situation.

Posted: Fri Jun 19, 2009 3:21 pm
by Captain24
Somali Boqor, Istaqfurul allah, why would you wish something like that to me?


Hey, the guy needs to be responsible, not run away. You can't run or hide in America

Re: Best advice for a nighmare situation.

Posted: Fri Jun 19, 2009 3:21 pm
by abdikarim86
this happened to a guy i know
only choice your friend has is to
marry the gurl....i mean who wants a bastard

Re: Best advice for a nighmare situation.

Posted: Fri Jun 19, 2009 3:22 pm
by Captain24
Ka darag wrote:WTF
HE GOT HIMSELF INTO THIS MESS...
:x Y THE FOCK IS HE GONNA ASK HER TO HAVE AN ABORTION??????

THAT IS MURDER!!!!!!!!!! SO FIRST THEY HAVE HARAM SEX, THEN HE WANTS TO KILL THE BABY :shock: :shock:

I HEARD OF THIS SIMILAR STORY BUT THE GUY WASNT MARRIED............HE ASKED THE GIRL TO AVE AN ABORTON..SHE SAID NO....HER FAMILY MADE HIM MARRY HER AND THEY NOW LIVE HAPPILY EVER AFTER :roll:

It's not murder if you do an abortion in the first 3 weeks or so

Re: Best advice for a nighmare situation.

Posted: Fri Jun 19, 2009 3:23 pm
by Somalian_Boqor
Captain24 tell him to move to Seattle. For 2,000 Dollars I will take him in for awhile. :up:

Seattle is the best place to hide people run over here all the time.

But if the girl was good enough to fuck than you must be good enough to marry unless she was the city hoe everyone fucked. :lol:

Re: Best advice for a nighmare situation.

Posted: Fri Jun 19, 2009 3:23 pm
by Nabeela
I'll pull a Basra here and say MAC SONKER, every action has a consequence, and since he was a man enough to do the crime, he should be a man enough to deal with the results.

Re: Best advice for a nighmare situation.

Posted: Fri Jun 19, 2009 3:25 pm
by FAH1223
The majority of the scholars are of the view that is impermissible for anyone – neither the fornicator nor any other man – to marry the woman who committed fornication, until except after their repentance and after the completion of her `iddah. This is because they hold the view that the child born of an illicit relationship cannot be attributed to the man with whom she conceived it. Therefore, she must establish that her womb is clear before she can marry him.
http://www.islamtoday.com/show_detail_s ... n_cat_id=3

Re: Best advice for a nighmare situation.

Posted: Fri Jun 19, 2009 3:25 pm
by HELWAA
abdikarim86 wrote:this happened to a guy i know
only choice your friend has is to
marry the gurl....i mean who wants a bastard

he is already a bastard marriyng wont make him xalaal...as matter of fact he cant marry her till the child is born. :down:

Anigu dadkan nacasnimadooda ayaan ka yaabay.......if they are stupid enough to cummit zinaha why cant they protect themselves?.......xaywaan waaxid..f-king cheater :evil: :evil:

Re: Best advice for a nighmare situation.

Posted: Fri Jun 19, 2009 3:26 pm
by Captain24
Nabeela wrote:I'll pull a Basra here and say MAC SONKER, every action has a consequence, and since he was a man enough to do the crime, he should be a man enough to deal with the results.
Xaasidnasanaa :lol: abaayo shit happens. If the guy was irresponsible and al-alcoholic, you would be on the money. But this guy was mikiin guy , and according to him, it happened just fast

Re: Best advice for a nighmare situation.

Posted: Fri Jun 19, 2009 3:26 pm
by S-D-M
What is so bad to be depressed about.....

...marry both of them........

....Also tell your friend there is this thing called condom which can help you from diseases and un wanted pregnancy.

Re: Best advice for a nighmare situation.

Posted: Fri Jun 19, 2009 3:26 pm
by ms.naliaa


The truth is in the pudding...or the belly

1) Get a DNA test
if hes the father.....hes gotta tell the girl hes engaged to
if not
2) Tell the furute wife what happend- she'll find out one way or another.

Re: Best advice for a nighmare situation.

Posted: Fri Jun 19, 2009 3:27 pm
by Captain24
HELWAA wrote:
abdikarim86 wrote:this happened to a guy i know
only choice your friend has is to
marry the gurl....i mean who wants a bastard

he is already a bastard marriyng wont make him xalaal...as matter of fact he cant marry her till the child is born. :down:

Anigu dadkan nacasnimadooda ayaan ka yaabay.......if they are stupid enough to cummit zinaha why cant they protect themselves?.......xaywaan waaxid..f-king cheater :evil: :evil:

Sometimes condoms got torn up, it happens all the time