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Let's say you met a person who fits your definition of perfection. However the timing is anything but perfect because you're not ready either financially, mentally, physically, spiritually, emotionally or due to career, studies e.t.c. If you were in a position such that you either had to go for it with this person or life would lead you into two different directions what would you do?

1. Hit the road and run

2. Change your plans and take a chance

3. Walk away, if it's meant to be it will be

Or something else?

hit the road

If Allah wants you to get married you will despite all ur plans.Wixi ilaahy kuu qoray ma badli kartid.

I would pursue her, but not change my plans for her.

FAH1223 wrote:hit the road

i second that.

HELWAA wrote:If Allah wants you to get married you will despite all ur plans.Wixi ilaahy kuu qoray ma badli kartid.

There is also free will. If you decide to marry a hooker, it will happen.

Executive wrote:I would pursue her, but not change my plans for her.

Of course because she is the one who's supposed to drop everything for you.

Captain24 wrote:

HELWAA wrote:If Allah wants you to get married you will despite all ur plans.Wixi ilaahy kuu qoray ma badli kartid.

There is also free will. If you decide to marry a hooker, it will happen.

Who cares about ur free will.........you cant change ur future

Helwa miskax dhagax,

Of course there is a free will xabiibti, otherwise, there is no point in working hard, if our fate is predetermined. Allah, being almighty, know what decision you are going to make, but the decision is yours ultimately

try to find a way to keep your busy life the career, studies etc etc and marry Mr.Right!

black velvet wrote:

Executive wrote:I would pursue her, but not change my plans for her.

Of course because she is the one who's supposed to drop everything for you.

Thats up to her, At the end of the day I am responsible for providing for her. And ultimately my plans will lead to self-suitability and long term financial prosperity inshallah. I don't think its wise to give up things your studies or career.

Executive, ninyahow Helwa naga guurso, ducaan kuugu darynaaye

Captain24 wrote:Executive, ninyahow Helwa naga guurso, ducaan kuugu darynaaye

Ha i inkaarin saxiib

Executive wrote:

Captain24 wrote:Executive, ninyahow Helwa naga guurso, ducaan kuugu darynaaye

Ha i inkaarin saxiib

Your lucky to get a girl of Helw'a quality, they don't come often saaxiib