Allah made it xalaal but i don't like it..

[zulaika]

divorce
polygamy
marrying your cousin

am i committing dambi by stating the above?

if you can add more xalaal things you don't like to the list...please do

merci

[CoolPoisons]

ofcourse Ur commiting dambi. What Allah made halal's a blessing.

But Ur a human who cant understand the infinite Wisdom of Allah

[Hyperactive]

zuliakha prophet saw said: abgath al7alal 3inda AllAh al dallaq.
means halal sha o ALlah ugu ne'ebyahay is divorce. because it's only last resort marka any thing else shaqeyn weydo.


marka you can dislike it for your self, but you cannot deney it's halal.

i dont know woman who loves it too but we men we like it instead having aside relation which is haram it's good t have that option when you need it. though with all responsibilities comes with is scrary

[AbdiWahab252]

Male circumcision. It should be a personal choice

[SummerRain]

I dislike polygamy with passion. I think I might be capable of committing serious crime if my husband was to marry another wife. She might suffer lose of life as well.

[snoop12]

I dislike polygamy with passion. I think I might be capable of committing serious crime if my husband was to marry another wife. She might suffer lose of life as well.

whats your problem, if you dont allow him then you can just devorce him.......

[AbdiWahab252]

I dislike polygamy with passion. I think I might be capable of committing serious crime if my husband was to marry another wife. She might suffer lose of life as well.

Ismahan,

If your hubby ain't tolka, then I say go for it. If he is, don't hate.

[Diyeeshaha_Tolka]

I dislike polygamy with passion. I think I might be capable of committing serious crime if my husband was to marry another wife. She might suffer lose of life as well.

bizinka iyo yaasinka,,hortaada hor alle,,waxaa disho melahasi karaaso

laakiin i hate divorce,,specially markay labada qofba ay yihiin familka,,way adagatahayinaad la safato labada qof miskod..

[Paddington Bear]

No your are not, Zulaika. You can dislike anything you want. As long as you do not act on your dislike, you are fine.

[Sir-Luggoyo]

When it comes to polygamy and divorce, I have had a talk with - according to me - the smartest lady I have ever seen.

She is married to a friend of mine, they have five kids, dude married a second wife, she heard about it and the whole neighborhood heard about it, every Xaliimo attempted to wreck and seperate this family, telling her to kick his sorry arse out of the house, tell him this is America and he can't do that to u and get away with it.

She confided in me saying that "if I kick his arse, he will end up in the other woman's waiting arms, so who is the loser here?" I have 5 kids to take care of and Lord knows I can't do that alone" She talked to him in a very sensible manner, showed him his mistake, told him that he has responsibilities towards these kids infront of Allah and the community, and if he can't manage the ones he has, how will he cope with the others who will eventually come from wife number 2.


He divorced the second wife.

[Paddington Bear]

When it comes to polygamy and divorce, I have had a talk with - according to me - the smartest lady I have ever seen.

She is married to a friend of mine, they have five kids, dude married a second wife, she heard about it and the whole neighborhood heard about it, every Xaliimo attempted to wreck and seperate this family, telling her to kick his sorry arse out of the house, tell him this is America and he can't do that to u and get away with it.

She confided in me saying that "if I kick his arse, he will end up in the other woman's waiting arms, so who is the loser here?" I have 5 kids to take care of and Lord knows I can't do that alone" She talked to him in a very sensible manner, showed him his mistake, told him that he has responsibilities towards these kids infront of Allah and the community, and if he can't manage the ones he has, how will he cope with the others who will eventually come from wife number 2.


He divorced the second wife.

So someone still lost out.

[SummerRain]

When it comes to polygamy and divorce, I have had a talk with - according to me - the smartest lady I have ever seen.

She is married to a friend of mine, they have five kids, dude married a second wife, she heard about it and the whole neighborhood heard about it, every Xaliimo attempted to wreck and seperate this family, telling her to kick his sorry arse out of the house, tell him this is America and he can't do that to u and get away with it.

She confided in me saying that "if I kick his arse, he will end up in the other woman's waiting arms, so who is the loser here?" I have 5 kids to take care of and Lord knows I can't do that alone" She talked to him in a very sensible manner, showed him his mistake, told him that he has responsibilities towards these kids infront of Allah and the community, and if he can't manage the ones he has, how will he cope with the others who will eventually come from wife number 2.


He divorced the second wife.

well he was sensible individual. THat can't go for all the other idiots around. Same thing happen to a close relative of mine. He divorced his second only to marry another the next year. Nin naag kale damcay wax aa ka qabankartid ma jiirto. Thats why its imparative for women to contruct the initial contract wisely for their advantage in the future, perhaps include a clause that might keep him in line forever.

[SummerRain]

I dislike polygamy with passion. I think I might be capable of committing serious crime if my husband was to marry another wife. She might suffer lose of life as well.

bizinka iyo yaasinka,,hortaada hor alle,,waxaa disho melahasi karaaso

laakiin i hate divorce,,specially markay labada qofba ay yihiin familka,,way adagatahayinaad la safato labada qof miskod..

Family ee ba ka tagantahay, wa ina adeerkey ha ahaado, if he wronged me ( in adeer or not, a man is capable if he wants to do damage to a woman), the treatment will be the same across the board.

[SummerRain]

I dislike polygamy with passion. I think I might be capable of committing serious crime if my husband was to marry another wife. She might suffer lose of life as well.

Ismahan,

If your hubby ain't tolka, then I say go for it. If he is, don't hate.

Deep down inside I wouldn't hurt a fly.

[kambuli]

I Hate GODODLE with passion