Source: mensnewsdaily
Wednesday, September 2, 2009
By Amy Alkon
Just posted another Advice Goddess column -- for a woman who doesn't understand why a guy she's got a crush on, but who she's given nary a signal of it to, hasn't pursued her. An excerpt:
Although you're utterly overwhelmed by the prospect of rejection, you seem to think it's easy for guys, that they just say to themselves, "Oh, look! It's human and wearing a bra. I think I'll ask it out!" Unless you're stunning -- in which case, all you have to do is exist in a guy's eyeline -- you need to let him know you're open for business; specifically, his. But, you don't just march up and blurt out "I like you. Do you like me?" -- which is about as alluring as "Drop by some afternoon so I can give you genital herpes."
Asking a guy out is another lousy idea. Men will tell you they're fine with it -- just as they're subconsciously knocking you from an 8 to a 3.6 for doing it. Because sex is more costly for a woman -- potentially leading to nine months of pregnancy, then a kid to drag around -- women evolved to be the choosier sex and men evolved to value choosy women, and to apply to be chosen. This isn't to say all the work should be left to men. It's your job to flirt with a guy, signaling that if he asked you out, you wouldn't scream "Rape!", fall on the floor laughing, or report him to Human Resources and have him demoted to crossing guard.
WOMEN NEED TO FLIRT !!!!!!!!!
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Re: WOMEN NEED TO FLIRT !!!!!!!!!
hahahahahaDaanyeer wrote:Source: mensnewsdaily
Wednesday, September 2, 2009
By Amy Alkon
Just posted another Advice Goddess column -- for a woman who doesn't understand why a guy she's got a crush on, but who she's given nary a signal of it to, hasn't pursued her. An excerpt:
Although you're utterly overwhelmed by the prospect of rejection, you seem to think it's easy for guys, that they just say to themselves, "Oh, look! It's human and wearing a bra. I think I'll ask it out!" Unless you're stunning -- in which case, all you have to do is exist in a guy's eyeline -- you need to let him know you're open for business; specifically, his. But, you don't just march up and blurt out "I like you. Do you like me?" -- which is about as alluring as "Drop by some afternoon so I can give you genital herpes."
Asking a guy out is another lousy idea. Men will tell you they're fine with it -- just as they're subconsciously knocking you from an 8 to a 3.6 for doing it. Because sex is more costly for a woman -- potentially leading to nine months of pregnancy, then a kid to drag around -- women evolved to be the choosier sex and men evolved to value choosy women, and to apply to be chosen. This isn't to say all the work should be left to men. It's your job to flirt with a guy, signaling that if he asked you out, you wouldn't scream "Rape!", fall on the floor laughing, or report him to Human Resources and have him demoted to crossing guard.
That was actually funny!
Re: WOMEN NEED TO FLIRT !!!!!!!!!
Daanyeer wrote:Source: mensnewsdaily
Wednesday, September 2, 2009
By Amy Alkon
Just posted another Advice Goddess column -- for a woman who doesn't understand why a guy she's got a crush on, but who she's given nary a signal of it to, hasn't pursued her. An excerpt:
Although you're utterly overwhelmed by the prospect of rejection, you seem to think it's easy for guys, that they just say to themselves, "Oh, look! It's human and wearing a bra. I think I'll ask it out!" Unless you're stunning -- in which case, all you have to do is exist in a guy's eyeline -- you need to let him know you're open for business; specifically, his. But, you don't just march up and blurt out "I like you. Do you like me?" -- which is about as alluring as "Drop by some afternoon so I can give you genital herpes."
Asking a guy out is another lousy idea. Men will tell you they're fine with it -- just as they're subconsciously knocking you from an 8 to a 3.6 for doing it. Because sex is more costly for a woman -- potentially leading to nine months of pregnancy, then a kid to drag around -- women evolved to be the choosier sex and men evolved to value choosy women, and to apply to be chosen. This isn't to say all the work should be left to men. It's your job to flirt with a guy, signaling that if he asked you out, you wouldn't scream "Rape!", fall on the floor laughing, or report him to Human Resources and have him demoted to crossing guard.




But honestly, I have had women ask me out and I never had a different view of them. It's all about being classy with it. But there were women who just throw themselves at you and as one my friends put are the "b*tch can I know your name first" group


sadeboi BEATING his CHEST for WOMEN in NEED of ADVICE, xalimo SAY your NAME first

Re: WOMEN NEED TO FLIRT !!!!!!!!!
LOL@bitch, can I know your name first. Are women that desperate lately?
Sadeboi, you could be bragging bro, I didn't know bold men were attractive to women

I need to shave my head to score a date
Sadeboi, you could be bragging bro, I didn't know bold men were attractive to women


I need to shave my head to score a date

Re: WOMEN NEED TO FLIRT !!!!!!!!!
Kinetic...bald is the new black man...
I'm serious...especially these young Somali girls (18 to early 20's) who are just experimenting partying and what not. They act far more in need of sexual activity then most men waa yaab.



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Re: WOMEN NEED TO FLIRT !!!!!!!!!
I love women like I love LA.
Women nowadays are not worried about getting pregnancy. They get all the convenient facility and drugs at their disposal. Besides having lavish lifestyle derived from their working income and new car, who believes girls would be abstained from getting love.
Women nowadays are not worried about getting pregnancy. They get all the convenient facility and drugs at their disposal. Besides having lavish lifestyle derived from their working income and new car, who believes girls would be abstained from getting love.
Re: WOMEN NEED TO FLIRT !!!!!!!!!
sadeboi wrote:Kinetic...bald is the new black man...
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I'm serious...especially these young Somali girls (18 to early 20's) who are just experimenting partying and what not. They act far more in need of sexual activity then most men waa yaab.
That is because of them growing up in an environment where everything is sexually driven. They are very self-conscious and self-absorbed like the rest of American girls. From tight pants(those who don't wear the pants make sure their skirts are tight enough to show their bottom shapes), The shade of lip gloss, the size of their boobs to the shape of their ass, their whole psychology is "how do I look"?. Masaakiinta lama yaabo aniga. It is the culture stupid. Ever been greated with the question "How many abs do you have"?


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Re: WOMEN NEED TO FLIRT !!!!!!!!!
Kinetic, I like the description. 

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