I Cheated On My Husband For 14 Years And Used Him For Money

[IRONm@N]

Wow, just wow. For every good woman out there, there seems to be a Sarah. Ever wonder why men are scared of marriage? A UK publication, The Daily Mail, covered a story of a cheating wife that goes above and beyond even the worst most of us have heard. We’ve all heard tales of cheating wives and stories about wives cheating on their husbands, but a case this severe is highly unusual to say the least.

The Story Of This Cheating Affair
Charles was happy to be a father to two children by his wife. Then she presented him with a third…and a fourth…a fifth and sixth. But when she fell pregnant a seventh time he KNEW the baby couldn’t be his. So how many were?

The couple already had two children together and went on to have four more, sharing what seemed a blessed life on a rambling property in the West Country. He had always, he says, taken immense pride in his role as a loving father.

But when Sarah fell pregnant for the seventh time five years ago, his life imploded.

Charles knew with devastating certainty that he could not be the father - for by then the couple had not had a sexual relationship for some months.


After a bitter confrontation, his wife confessed that the pregnancy was the result of a one-night stand. Terrible enough after a long marriage, you may think. But worse was to come.

Last year, DNA tests ordered by his wife revealed that Charles was not the father of his four youngest children either.

They were the product of a secret 14-year affair his wife had been conducting with local businessman Richard Mills - the same man who had fathered her seventh child.

Sarah, 49, had known all along, but callously allowed her husband to believe they were his.

The discovery has sent shockwaves through the heart of the family.

The two eldest, Alison, now 26, and 24-year-old Charles junior, have left home.

But the four younger children who Charles also thought were his - now aged 12, ten, nine and six - live with their mother in the former

Charles, meanwhile, has been forced to move out, and is facing his 70th birthday with only with his memories for company.

The Cheating Wife’s Point Of View
“I made a deliberate decision to have children by my lover and I would do it again if I had to”

“As far as I’m concerned I was trying to do the right thing by the family by keeping us all together.”

“If I was a selfish woman I would have left years ago, but I felt it was better for all the children to try to maintain status quo - not that it wasn’t terribly hard at times. But I have always tried to put their best interests first.”

“He did provide for us, yes, but what he didn’t give me was any fun, or affection, or real attention. He never wanted to go out and do anything.”

“Richard had two young children and so did I. We enjoyed the excitement and lust and although there were deeper feelings, too, we made a point of not discussing them.”

“What was the point? We were committed to our respective domestic situations. Much as I would have liked to get out, I didn’t envisage leaving Charles because I didn’t want to upset the kids.”

“I was very broody and wanted Richard’s baby.”

“He said it wasn’t sensible but I went for it anyway. I instinctively knew that he would be fine with it and I was so desperate to have his child that I was prepared to take the risk.”

“To be honest, Charles didn’t even come into it. I remember thinking I had to do something for my own happiness.”

“I don’t deny it was calculating.”

“In a funny way everyone was happy. Charles and I had discussed the idea of having more children.”

The Cheated Husband’s Point Of View
“Sarah started pestering me for sex after a long period of little physical contact.”

“I remember thinking she was trying to be a loving wife, but now I realise she was covering her tracks because she knew she was pregnant by someone else - for the first time.”

“Richard is beneath my contempt, but it’s Sarah I really blame, I now know she used me to raise her children.”

“If she’d had the courage to tell me the truth at the start, I could have had a chance of rebuilding my life. Instead, she chose to continue her deception over the years.”

“I gave her a home, children and a decent standard of life, and this is how she repaid me. The only way I can deal with it is to tell myself she’s ill.”

“We had the typical family life — the children, dogs, a cat.”

“Sarah stayed at home while I got a job working as a council manager. We were happy.”

“People ask me now if I had any idea what was going on but it’s so easy to miss the signs, all the children took after their mother, so I never I suspected a thing - why would I?”

“Life was busy, I had a full-time job and a house full of kids. I wouldn’t say Sarah and I had an amazing relationship but it wasn’t bad, and I was perfectly content.”

“She said she’d had sex with me while I was asleep - it was rubbish. I felt completely numb.”

“I pressed her to tell me who the father was, but she refused. I didn’t know what to do - I didn’t want to abandon my kids but it was also obvious the marriage was at an end.”

“She claimed it was a one-night stand and that the father didn’t want to know.”

“Later I got an anonymous phone call telling me it was a man called Richard Mills. But Sarah did not react when I confronted her with the name.”

“Then, when the baby girl was born in 2002, I didn’t think I would want anything to do with her, but she was such a lovely little thing. I decided that if Sarah would let me, I would bring her up as one of ours.”

“As far as I was concerned she had no contact with the baby’s father and there was a chance we could have a fresh start.”

What Does The World Think Of Sarah’s Scandal?
It’s no surprise the readers of this story have been shocked and outraged. A woman using a man for his money and stability to raise kids that weren’t his. A man who happily supported his family despite his wife’s lies who now is alone with nothing. Not even his house. The other man now lives there with the woman who used to be HIS wife.

DNA paternity tests should be required at issuing of birth certificate

According to DNA testing, between 15-30%, depending on which statistics you look at, of birth certificates identify the wrong man as the father of a child. Now you guys talk about feminism all you want, but in their basic nature, women are sluts. Their instinct to have children, to seek out the best sperm for them, and to blank out any moral or ethical considerations that’d stand in the way of it is paramount over any notion of loyalty to a husband or matrimonial contract.
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It's stuff like this that Islam invented stoning for adulters

[zingii]

All i can say is, it was meant to be.

[edleh]

what a sad case! but the man was dumb as i think. i mean, wtf was he doing all those years when such an ugly story was talking place in his own house? btw, any shocking thing that is considered to be odd by dadka caadiga ah becomes simply normal to those diinlaaweyaal or those who distance themselves from their diin.

to be without iimaan is to be without Diin
and to be without Diin== the driving force of every evil.

[curious cat]

the man is not dumb but she lying miniplitave bitch for pulling stupid thing like that. However this does not give men excuse to be scared of marriage or to think that all women are like this.

[Amethyst]

I've always wondered how white men reproduced, seeing how they dont have any balls.

[The Nomad]

This is why you have to discipline and berate them on a daily basis, until they grow to realize that their opinions mean nothing and perhaps grow completely reliant on you.

It's a science. If you fail, they end up like this. If you pass, you end up with an indentured servant

[Advo]

While ur wife is @ work...take the baby to the clinic and dna test baby!

just to be on the safe side!

[Addoow]

Poor fellow.alla aduunyadu maxey dad xun ku noolyihiin.Acuudkah.

[IRONm@N]

While ur wife is @ work...take the baby to the clinic and dna test baby!

just to be on the safe side!

damn! lol, that is kinda paraniod, if you are that suspicious I may suggest you are in the wrong marriage!

But I think, in away the man was kinda, too trusting and a little bit stupid, for not seeing the signs, four children all of them not yours?

[S-D-M]

While ur wife is @ work...take the baby to the clinic and dna test baby!

just to be on the safe side!

Back to the story.......There is this dude I know who his uncle left his wife back in Nairobi. When he try to bring her here in USA he had to do DNA testing on his 4 kids to prove that he was their father. Surprise.......two of them were not his.


Shit happens people

[Kinetic]

damn! lol, that is kinda paraniod, if you are that suspicious I may suggest you are in the wrong marriage! But I think, in away the man was kinda, too trusting and a little bit stupid, for not seeing the signs, four children all of them not yours?

He said the kids took after their mom(in looks), which is something normal. You can't go by the kid's looks and determine it is not yours. I think he diagnosed this woman correctly by saying she was "Ill" meaning Mentally unstable. The man whom she cheated with is also one fucked up being. Cheating in a moment of weakness is logical, but to continue fathering kids and let another man raise my kids is just way beyond comprehension. Also, something tells you that these western family laws are fucked up. How can the bitch have the man's home as hers and live in it with the douche who cheated on her husband?

[Kinetic]

Her excuse was "She wasn't having fun", "The man was interested in being a hardworker", makes me wonder if all women have these same stupid mentality. They think like little children.

[Lillaahiya]

Miskiinka

That's some fucked up shidh walle.

[American-Suufi]

she is 49 and he is grandpa 70. first kid is now 26 and then she was 23 and he was 44. the moral story alerts dudes like cawar and all those middle aged somali men not 2 go to africa and th middle east and seek a desperate young female to marry. difference of age should not be more than 5 years, otherwise when ur abu-cubeed retires, she will be still active. it happens to older somali men 2.