a true lady-hard to find and not too easy to catch

gadfly · Post by **gadfly** » Wed Jul 13, 2005 11:15 am

A true lady balances power and grace. She is a virtuous woman who possesses poise, finds a win-win solution without hurting others in the process, avoids male bashing, is compassionate, is generous, and knows when saying nothing is better. There are those who claim to be true ladies but are nothing but harlots encased in fluffy exteriors. Unfortunately, I've come upon only one true lady in my life and she's currently married to my brother. Oh woe is me !

In any case, women arenÃ¢Â€Â™t born ladies-the title must be earned and I tip my hat to those ladies who do have such traits as faithfulness, honesty,and integrity and so deserve the title of lady.

gadfly

studente · Post by **studente** » Wed Jul 13, 2005 12:51 pm

lol. keep away from ur brothers wife !!! Laughing

anyway my definition of a gentleman is simple: he has to know and be in tune with my EVERY SINGLE need. Also a TRUE lady u must also dress like one ! I mean, if u dress like a homeless person you are not a true lady Laughing

Mochatanya · Post by **Mochatanya** » Wed Jul 13, 2005 6:05 pm

How many nicks does Basra have?

*Proud_Muslimah* · Post by ***Proud_Muslimah*** » Wed Jul 13, 2005 11:52 pm

Assalamu Alaikum,

A true lady is a woman who is in touch with her deen, fears Allah (SWT), who concentrates more in pleasing Allah (SWT) rather than a human-being, who protects her modesty (does NOT date nor shows off her beauty to men who are NOT related to her), who loves her brothers and sisters in faith for the sake of Allah (SWT), who neither gets jealous nor envies her fellow sisters in faith, who when it comes to choosing a spouse follows the Qur'an and Sunnah of the prophet (saw), who her mouth and hands the Muslims are save from (i.e. she does NOT backbite nor slander her brothers and sisters in faith), who tries to do everything that is right and forbids or stays away from evil, who does NOT get too attached to this world but looks forward to the hereafter, who is good to her parents and brothers and sisters in blood and last who is down to earth!

Salam

GangstaBoo · Post by **GangstaBoo** » Thu Jul 14, 2005 2:06 am

[quote="studente"]:lol: Laughing

lol. keep away from ur brothers wife !!! Laughing

anyway my definition of a gentleman is simple: he has to know and be in tune with my EVERY SINGLE need. Also a TRUE lady u must also dress like one ! I mean, if u dress like a homeless person you are not a true lady Laughing

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what if you dress like a h*E, DOES THAT MAKE YOU A TRUE LADY ? nOT THAT I AM SAYIN IS YOU.

Abdi Garissa · Post by **Abdi Garissa** » Thu Jul 14, 2005 7:56 am

A true lady is 1 who sucks and blows like a vacume cleaner and better still, SWALLOWS Laughing

Post by **Basra-** » Wed Jul 27, 2005 5:40 am

Gadfly??????? You seem to have forgotten me!!! Mad

Quite vexing really!!! ! Embarassed

Gadfly to deserve a true Lady with all those fanstastic qualities --You have to be a True Gentleman.After all- Birds of same feathers fly together! Laughing

In order to deserve such perfection-- You need to be perfect & stop calling women 'harlots'. (However much some women deserve to be called such---but we're talking about you here & your manners & not them)Honestly I --myself dont know what this word is.Maybe i'll check in the dictionary.(I am sure it is not flattery)

A true gentleman also has the qualites that he seeks in his true lady.

But nevertheless---with all your short comings-- i still am MAD why u did not see me as your 'perfect lady role model'!! You see-- i still think you are a gentleman.My kinda of a gentleman. (By no means this is just a common courtesy kindness not flirtations) kiss

loool

I am insulted beyond any ingenuine perfomance. Rolling Eyes

PS: You forgot to include in your list of criterias:Intelligent & full of humor. Rolling Eyes

Believe me ---when u grow older-i mean, older than u are now-- lol -the wifey needs to cling on something else other than your fine physique`! LOOOOL (Fine' - i think)

Major PS: LEAVE YOUR SISTER-IN-LAW ALONE!!!!!!!!! Shocked

Let me guess-- u have the bigger brother role model complex? U've always looked up to your older brother--his acomplishments & wanting to be just like him.(But gadfly- bro-- he is cuter than u aboow loool).Now u find yourself wanting his Wife too??? That is too ambitious!!!! Evil or Very Mad

Advice: Get off from your bigger brothers shadow----spread your wings & create your own' "MRS AIDEED" Rolling Eyes

Ludackris · Post by **Ludackris** » Wed Jul 27, 2005 6:21 am

[quote="Abdi Garissa"]A true lady is 1 who **** and blows like a vacume cleaner and better still, SWALLOWS Laughing

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Thats a biatch

Gadly so are you a truelady? Laughing

gadfly · Post by **gadfly** » Wed Jul 27, 2005 10:44 am

Basra how could I ever forget you? That cheeky smile, the belly heaving laugh, and that ever present witty pertness-quite unforgettable. No, I've just decided to give you and your husband plenty of room during your vacation. Wink

And about my brother I was joking but thanks for the advice and thanks for the ambiguous compliment (which I've noticed you're quite fantastic in dishing out). wow, I never knew you to be the flirting type though. Who would've thought !

Proud muslimah: A very beautiful definition-those are qualities every woman should aim for and very few have achieved. To tell you the truth, I think anyone with even half these qualities would be admirable.

abdi: going by your definition, would you consider your mother to be a true lady ? take a few moments before you answer becuase this is what you would call a catch-22

Post by **Basra-** » Mon Aug 01, 2005 3:50 am

LolGadfly

Oh my......I sense some vague trace of reserveness than usual.Are you in love?? With your sister-in-law?????? Your wit has drastically come down a whole notch! I am even afraid to really polk more about your dilemma.Indeed if you are inlove with her--- i am afraid it is rather a huge dilemma!

Now---lets work on how you can achieve such a goal.First--ask yourself --are you really---really in love with your sister in law? IF yes-then---there are steps to forward your agenda.

Second-go for it-- Kiss her ---& then prophess your all Gadfly LOVE!! Make sure you are kneeling down when perfoming this Romeo/juliet act.

Third---Kill the your brother & live happily ever after!!! Laughing

PS: OF course i am joking waryaa.Don't go do this ok.Somehow i thought i should warn you since u never know. Smile

Waraabshe · Post by **Waraabshe** » Mon Aug 01, 2005 2:23 pm

I know one thing, the selfishness of Stundente will be deprecated by all round normally and a fate like hers will be to languish in her own world as single and become cajuuzo who never marries. No one wants to be a slave for another one's silly childish dependence. Studente, kaaley kabaha ii casee for they accumulated dust when I checked into this thread.

Gadfly.

Perfection is not sublunary matter, settle for less and you will be happy. There are some tolerable shortcomings if a woman has faith, the rest is excusable.

studente · Post by **studente** » Mon Aug 01, 2005 3:54 pm

^ looool. what ever did I do to u to deserve SUCH a bizarro out of da blue attack on my wonderful self Laughing

i'll have to add u to my "losers who attack me with multiple nicks" category.

accumulate dust ?? lool. you must have been standing here reading and rereading and writing and rewriting in this thread for quite a long time to accumulate such dust. and standing still like a statue too !! Laughing

Waraabshe · Post by **Waraabshe** » Mon Aug 01, 2005 4:07 pm

Loser list will be fine Very Happy

Post by **Basra-** » Tue Aug 02, 2005 6:54 am

lol@studente`

Ignore Waraabshe aka Full moon---he has a tendancy to post smart underlined comments that ONLY himself & the clingongs understand!! He is under the impression--as are many fools in here--that we are the same---single, old & whom no one can marry --of course except HIM!! Which is to say--what does that say about him???? Desperate or a Hero????? Wink

studente · Post by **studente** » Tue Aug 02, 2005 10:33 am

aka aka aka Mad

but thank u, I will ignore him. Razz

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