HannaH,
"Asalamu Caleykum......"
waca leekuma salaam waraxmatullaahi wabarakaat
"Riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight! Spousal abuse is normal,women need to be put in place once inawhile....What's wrong with knowing that my place is behind my spouse?"
There is knowing your place and then there is knowing your place. Your clamor for spousal 'abuse' is what I don't buy. I'm just trying to figure out what is it that you camouflaging with this facade.
What do you consider 'spousal abuse'?
My feelings is that beneath this veneer of 'submissive' woman you brandish, is deep hate for men. And its not that you want to be 'abused' but rather, you wanting to abuse. Men that is.
Its nothing but a smoke screen for your obvious lesbianism (don't take it personal, just an opinion).