Second wife

[CoolPoisons]

ka hor intaana ka hadlin, i want to say that im not thinking about getting second wife. waa hypothetical topic.

Inkasto ay xalaal tahay, i dont think i can fulfill the responsibility.

Suaasha waxay tahay dadow, especially ragga who have second wives. how did U convince them to be second wife or third ama fourth?

[Xamud.]

I`m gonna start off with one wife, but if my pocket serves me right in the future why not go for a second one? probably when I`m 35-40, and I`ll get a third wife when I`m 45+

[CoolPoisons]

Xamud, natijadada qari or U will face the wrath of dumarka Somalinet


laakinse what about convincing them. Hada dumarka Somaliyed oo ku barbaaray in the West are anti polygamy inkasto ay tahay xalaal.

unless U go back home

[Xamud.]

Suaasha waxay tahay dadow, especially ragga who have second wives. how did U convince them to be second wife or third ama fourth?

What is there too convince? it`s my god given right too marry more then one wife, I`m aware of the responsibility that come`s with it, that`s why I`m not willing too a second wife until I`m sure that I can commit too the responsibility that comes with it.

[flo_progressive]

If my hubbs can afford to marry a 2nd wife and has enough gwap to take care of his responsibilities i dont see why he cant marry another woman, if he chooses too. i just want to remind him that im Wifey Number 1 though

i can babysit wife #2's kids and she can babysit mine

works out good either way.

[CoolPoisons]

Xamud wali sheekada ma fahmin

i said, gabadha ku so barbaaray in the West. how can U convince them be a second wife ama third.

They can say no if they want

Weyna ka duwanyihin kuwa ku nool carada ma garatay

[HELWAA]

Honesty is important.If he is man enough to get himself a second wife he should
tell the first one the truth.No is qarqarin.

[CoolPoisons]

Honesty is important.If he is man enough to get himself a second wife he should
tell the first one the truth.No is qarqarin.

laakin ogow Helwa, its not required to tell the first wife and he doesnt need her permission

[HELWAA]

Cool

I know that but he cant keep a whole person secret forever...she will find out soon or later
so if he is honest from the start that could save his marriage.

[zulaika]

laakin ogow Helwa, its not required to tell the first wife and he doesnt need her permission

what do u mean he's not required? he most certainly IS.. required to make his marriage public and be known..specially to his 1st wife.....no secret marriages are allowed in islam.

[CoolPoisons]

Cool

I know that but he cant keep a whole person secret forever...she will find out soon or later
so if he is honest from the start that could save his marriage.

aniga taas ma ka hadlayo. Waxaan ka hadlaya that if he tells her and she says no, he can still get a second wife

kuma xirna that he has to get her approval and its not valid excuse for divorce hadey marwadiisa kowaad diido

[Skippa]

2nd wife is not macquul for most men...wey qasbayaan

[salafi_student]

I may become a victim of anger beatings after this becomes public...But I Think the idea is Cool!


Didn't I not say that... lol

[CoolPoisons]

2nd wife is not macquul for most men...wey qasbayaan

waan kula qabaa

and its big responsbility

[Skippa]

That's true...as they used to say, timirtii horeba dab loo waa'