BULLYING RELATIVES
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- 1nemansquad
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BULLYING RELATIVES
how do you deal with them and their demanding ways?
Someone close to me is getting bullied to help her uncle, mom's brother or risk getting habaar; they even said that bluntly. If you dont do it waalagu habaraa
They are asking her to travel back home, do a fake marriage and then do the process of trying to bring them to the West; in most cases this doesn't even work, its a long process which takes years if it works, which means this individual will have to put their future and plans on hold, this person is in school and they are asking her to take time out just to do what they want, this is a young female that has never travled overseas and in spite of all this; they are still saying do it or take habaaar
What would have you done?
Someone close to me is getting bullied to help her uncle, mom's brother or risk getting habaar; they even said that bluntly. If you dont do it waalagu habaraa
They are asking her to travel back home, do a fake marriage and then do the process of trying to bring them to the West; in most cases this doesn't even work, its a long process which takes years if it works, which means this individual will have to put their future and plans on hold, this person is in school and they are asking her to take time out just to do what they want, this is a young female that has never travled overseas and in spite of all this; they are still saying do it or take habaaar
What would have you done?
- Cinque Mtume
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Re: BULLYING RELATIVES
I would seriously do this:1nemansquad wrote:
What would have you done?

Good thing I don't have a retarded family like your friend.
Re: BULLYING RELATIVES
Thank god most of my family members have IQ's above a 100 

- 1nemansquad
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Re: BULLYING RELATIVES
tha was my initial reaction when i was told this but then its different when its your abti doing it
- Cinque Mtume
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Re: BULLYING RELATIVES
1nemansquad wrote:tha was my initial reaction when i was told this but then its different when its your abti doing it
No it's not different. They're using her. She's stupid if she does this for people (can't call this family) who don't give a fuck about her.
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Re: BULLYING RELATIVES
You Must Be The Tard One Thendawwa9 wrote:Thank god most of my family members have IQ's above a 100


Re: BULLYING RELATIVES
Im telling u the government cannot be fooled, they have a way of finding out these kinda things that's why it take forever to make it happen. Anywho what type of uncle would put his niece on a risk and a process of hell just to bring someone and even threaten her? That's not her abti, that mothapuka shouldnt be anywhere near her or her loves ones.
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Re: BULLYING RELATIVES
You Need To Stop Hanging Around With Girls1nemansquad wrote:how do you deal with them and their demanding ways?
Someone close to me is getting bullied to help her uncle, mom's brother or risk getting habaar; they even said that bluntly. If you dont do it waalagu habaraa
They are asking her to travel back home, do a fake marriage and then do the process of trying to bring them to the West; in most cases this doesn't even work, its a long process which takes years if it works, which means this individual will have to put their future and plans on hold, this person is in school and they are asking her to take time out just to do what they want, this is a young female that has never travled overseas and in spite of all this; they are still saying do it or take habaaar
What would have you done?
You F'ucking Queer

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Re: BULLYING RELATIVES
Aww poor girl...
She needs someone on her side, preferably a relative, who can speak on her behalf. It's really difficult to say no to a waalid, but sometimes, you just have to.
She needs someone on her side, preferably a relative, who can speak on her behalf. It's really difficult to say no to a waalid, but sometimes, you just have to.
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Re: BULLYING RELATIVES
how does hanging out with a girl makes one a queer? you go hang with the dudes, amma hang with the good flower and we will see who the queer isDusty wrote:1nemansquad wrote:
You Need To Stop Hanging Around With Girls
You F'ucking Queer

Advo, i adviced her to say no but at the same time; i gota stay on the sidelines on this one; you don't want to come off as hating on the fam
FF how are u?

Some relatives are greedy as fuck walahi, specially these ones
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Re: BULLYING RELATIVES
1stemansquad they tried the same shiid on me
they wanted me to fake marry my cousin to get her here
they wanted me to fake marry my cousin to get her here
- *Nobleman*
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Re: BULLYING RELATIVES
Tell her to ignore him. Trust me in somalia they make these types of habars like its nothing. Imagine what demands he will make when he come over.
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Which country is she from? In UK you have to be 21 and in employment, she should listen to her family and help them. Bullying kulaha, they are her family and so what that she never travelled abroad. Tell her there is nothing to be worried about and it is easy process.
Re: BULLYING RELATIVES
Do yourself and her a favor, marry her.
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Re: BULLYING RELATIVES
Subxanallah, that's bad wallahi.
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