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His mom was jealous of our family and she did Fitna between me and my husband..That is why me and my husband divorced.

I asked her" What made you think that your mother-in-law is not a member of your family"?
Do you want, you and your son to be seen as two different families? Your mother in law loves her son the same way you love your son....

Dadka qaarkood caqlixumadooda ayaan ka yaabay wallee

We all have had horrible mothers of our loved ones. My biggest fear is a stupid/crazy sodoh

naa baah kambuli--spoken like a single spinster clueless person. When u marry-- you make a family with your spouse. Grant parents remain just grand parents-- i think mother in laws can be jealous--because her precious son has the hots for another woman. Mothers---are women at the end of the day. And women--mother or not a mother r proned to jealousy of other women, especially daughter in laws.

The wife and mother in law are NOT family.

Inlows can realy ruin ur marriage..my advice move as far as you can from them.

AbdiWahab252 wrote:We all have had horrible mothers of our loved ones. My biggest fear is a stupid/crazy sodoh

Waaraa AW
Make sure Mommy and wifey Do go along well with eachother.

Addoow,

I will ensure that they RESPECT each other.

If she doesn’t respect my mother, she won’t be my wife that much longer. However, my mother must respect her too. There are some mothers out there who might be little jealous of losing their sons to another women. That is just human nature.

When the dust settles, there is only one woman who loves you unconditionally and that is your beloved mother. There are more coochies out there to choose from but ONLY ONE MOTHER!

Dhaga Bacayl wrote:If she doesn’t respect my mother, she won’t be my wife that much longer. However, my mother must respect her too. There are some mothers out there who might be little jealous of losing their sons to another women. That is just human nature.

When the dust settles, there is only one woman who loves you unconditionally and that is your beloved mother. There are more coochies out there to choose from but ONLY ONE MOTHER!

your wife should never come between you and your mother or compete with your mother for your love...

i see some girls who get all territorial about their husbands when it comes 2 how he deals with his family... how stupid is this.... i mean personally i know a thing or 2 about jealousy(its in me blood )...but i would never apply it to his family.

zulaika wrote:

Dhaga Bacayl wrote:If she doesn’t respect my mother, she won’t be my wife that much longer. However, my mother must respect her too. There are some mothers out there who might be little jealous of losing their sons to another women. That is just human nature.

When the dust settles, there is only one woman who loves you unconditionally and that is your beloved mother. There are more coochies out there to choose from but ONLY ONE MOTHER!

your wife should never come between you and your mother or compete with your mother for your love...

i see some girls who get all territorial about their husbands when it comes 2 how he deals with his family... how stupid is this.... i mean personally i know a thing or 2 about jealousy(its in me blood )...but i would never apply it to his family.

Very smart lady!

If she does not respect his mom..She should go

If he does not notice that she does not respect his mom..He should hang himself period...

Of course there are difficult human beings in this world and as the saying goes: Habar baasi, gabadh baas bay ahaan jirtey...A bad person is a bad person when he is young and when he is old...But if a women loves her husband she should ignore the irritating behavior(if she has one) of his mom..As the saying goes" ninkaad jeceshahay eygiisana jeclow"

a Xalimo should ask herself, how she would feel if her husband hates her mom...

I am always an advocate for women..But this case of in-laws..We women are in the wrong side of the road 99% of the time... I have never seen a boy saying 'I wish a chick without a mom". but I see a chick saying "I wish a husband without a mother

kambuli kiss my a$$.

^^^ Uff waan wiswisey