"Personal size and mental sorrow have certainly no necessary proportions. A large bulky figure has as good a right to be in deep affliction as the most graceful set of limbs in the world. But fair or not, there are unbecoming conjunctions, which reason will patronize in vain, which taste cannot tolerate, which ridicule will seize"
She is basically saying, fair or not fair, fat people crying or fat people in general are intolerable, that they are ridiculous, and reasons supports this patronizing philosophy! lloooooooool
