Parents and their put-downs

[OliveOil]

Walahi it makes me sooo mad every time my parents try to put me down. Whenever we collide in an argument due to our lack of understanding and/or awareness of the conflicts we go through, they say negative things to me...as if it will build me up!! I hope they can understand me more and not bring me down and by giving me answers would help tremendously. Do they actually believe that it will help me? Studies have shown that verbal put-downs do not help with the person's development but rather slows them down!!!! aaarrrrrgggggg

[paidmonk]

All parents are like that.

Your parents will do that until you make $60k/year. The day you get your hands out of their pocket they will love you again.

[Narcissistic]

What do they call you?

Don't worry about- It's prolly just tough love.

[Mr. Yungnfresh]

In these kinds of situations, it's always best to put yourself in their shoes and try to look at it from their perspective. It's possible that they're right and you're a failure as a daughter.

[Firewall]

runway and live in a half way house for teens that way you can have all the freedom you want

[OliveOil]

Piedmonk, I am still in college so don't they gotta support me till I make that much money ayagoo inacin

Nar, u don't wanna know walaashiis

Mr. Young, I 'm so not a failure...I have a part time job and go to school...I am not bad...I go to the masjit every now and then!!

Firewall lol I am 22

[Shirib]

how long have u been in the west?

[HELWAA]

When you get married and Allah bless you with a daughter
you wil understand ur parents better.Most parents forget to mention the good things and
focus on the bad things.They are just human and make mistakes like everyone els...no body is perfect!! REMEMBER that. Aduunka dhan waxa dad ka buuxa iyaga uun ba ka naxaya...22yrs bay ku soo koraynayen...xogoodi iyo lacagtoodi wad qabta.Ilaa iyo hadana way ku warwarayan oo waxay rabaan inad meel iska soo saartid ood waqtigaaga ka faaiydaysatid.They just want the best for you so dont disappoint them.

Talk to them and tell them what you just wrote here.

[FAH1223]

In these kinds of situations, it's always best to put yourself in their shoes and try to look at it from their perspective. It's possible that they're right and you're a failure as a daughter.

[Diyeeshaha_Tolka]

the worst are the parent who praise one of their child and put down the other,,i know such case and the 2 brothers hate each other for life,,one even refused to come the other brother's wedding.

[grandpakhalif]

In these kinds of situations, it's always best to put yourself in their shoes and try to look at it from their perspective. It's possible that they're right and you're a failure as a daughter.

[Hyperactive]

tell me any parents who feel you're good enough?

they all ask for more and more and push you harder and harder.
they dont know how to say: well done son!!

[Narcissistic]

tell me any parents who feel you're good enough?

they all ask for more and more and push you harder and harder.
they dont know how to say: well done son!!

That is totally Somali parents...

Once I was talking about this to my grandparents and my hooyo agreed with me and she said something along the lines of how awoowe never ever showed any affection/gave encouragement and my awoowe was like "dee ma rabin inaa nacasiin koriyo" omg wallahi, it was hella funny the way he said it

[Sir-Luggoyo]

She is 22 and complaining about her parent's tough love!!!!They should chop yr kintir right now

[qoraxeey]

She is 22 and complaining about her parent's tough love!!!!They should chop yr kintir right now

u are so evil