ladies is this acceptable to you

[zulaika]

there's this guy i know who in less then a year of marriage got a divorce from his wife, and shortly after that met another girl and decided to marry her right away.....now here's the problem. he spent a lot of money in his previous marriage paying for the wedding and furniture for the house etc., when he split with his ex, he kept everything...i mean down to the last fork(mainly because his ex walked away without a big fight: i'm still tryna figure out why she did this..but i digress )...anyways, he told his new lady she will be furnishing her new home with the old stuff he bought the other girl....basically alaab uu inantii hore u iibiyey buu ku guursadey this other girl. i'm sure its fine if they are in agreement, but seriously?? talk about living with baggage from his previous life..literally.

my question, how many of you ladies would accept this sort of arrangement.

[SummerRain]

ummm naw

[Basra-]

Ok..... Starting a thread and responding to self.....(ok not to digress)......Well... Zuli---i say--thats tacky but in these economic state--- i understand. !

[Serena]

Well if she willing to marry a guy who was discarded by another woman not that long ago, she should be willing to accept the used furniture as well.

[Basra-]

Again....responding to self. Good job there Moha or buxo # 3!

[SummerRain]

Well if she willing to marry a guy who was discarded by another woman not that long ago, she should be willing to accept the used furniture as well.

[Narcissistic]

Very awkward....

*waits for the guys to enter the thread*

Well if she willing to marry a guy who was discarded by another woman not that long ago, she should be willing to accept the used furniture as well.

[The_Emperior5]

I don’t see the problem , its just material he could sell his stuff on ebay and then buy new Material if his wife thinks she should not have what his ex wife should have its not like he is going to give her the gold , of his ex wife.

[FAH1223]

Poor Bastard...

[ms.naliaa]

No, I wouldnt be okay with that at all.

But can we just talk about why a woman would be willing to marry a man knowing shes a rebound?

[zulaika]

I don’t see the problem , its just material he could sell his stuff on ebay and then buy new Material if his wife thinks she should not have what his ex wife should have its not like he is going to give her the gold , of his ex wife.

i know eh? at least sell the stuff and buy something new with the money.

[zulaika]

No, I wouldnt be okay with that at all.

But can we just talk about why a woman would be willing to marry a man knowing shes a rebound?

nai,

so u got a waiting period or something...wouldn't give a man who just got out a relationship a chance huh?

[kambuli]

1. Tolow maxay naagtu uga dhaqaaqday
2. Tolow ma xumaan ay ku aragtay bay uga dhaqaaqday...?

I don't blame her if she believed in..Qori iyo qiiqisa waa la isla tuuraa.. ama Kab iyo xaarkeed waa la isla tuuraa...

About the second wife...!!!

Tolow xaggey ugu xidhneyd? Xaggey diyaar ku ahayd?

Ma labuu isku waday kolkii horeba? Mese ciil baa la baday oo isla markiiba naag buu isku tuurey?

Sheeko badan baa meesha ka socota...

The furniture can be used again, but not the linens and stuff.....

Naag nin ay jeceshahay alaabo duug ah iwm kuma nacayso...Jacaylka hayaa ka weyn waxaas waa haddii meesha Jacayl jiro...

[ms.naliaa]

No, I wouldnt be okay with that at all.

But can we just talk about why a woman would be willing to marry a man knowing shes a rebound?

nai,

so u got a waiting period or something...wouldn't give a man who just got out a relationship a chance huh?

heeeeeeeeeeel no I wouldnt give a man who just left a relationship a chance!
Thats a recipe for disaster.
Would you?

[Warsan_Star_Muslimah]

there's this guy i know who in less then a year of marriage got a divorce from his wife, and shortly after that met another girl and decided to marry her right away.....now here's the problem. he spent a lot of money in his previous marriage paying for the wedding and furniture for the house etc., when he split with his ex, he kept everything...i mean down to the last fork(mainly because his ex walked away without a big fight: i'm still tryna figure out why she did this..but i digress )...anyways, he told his new lady she will be furnishing her new home with the old stuff he bought the other girl....basically alaab uu inantii hore u iibiyey buu ku guursadey this other girl. i'm sure its fine if they are in agreement, but seriously?? talk about living with baggage from his previous life..literally.

my question, how many of you ladies would accept this sort of arrangement.

Salaam my darling.

Ofcourse it is not acceptable!

If I'm going for a divorcee, I want to forget that it ever happened. That would mean, I don't even want to live in the same house they lived in, forget about using furniture intend for another women. In fact I wouldn't want to live in the same city as his ex-wife, no; how about country?

I'm not too keen on divorcee's.