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I have a brother who is a year younger than me. Our personalities are very much alike except that he doesn't trust people too easily and lets just say that I am not good in that area! Masaakiin dadka iska aaminta baan ahay...gullable is nacday Anyways, that is not the problem...just wanted to give u guys a little background info. So, marka...there is this girl who is dying to get to know him better...she really really cares so much about him walahi...she goes to his soccer games and acts like she is there for her guy friend when in reality she is not.....and she knows so much about him. Korka baan gabadhaan ka aqaanay awalkii hore, laakiin just recently I got to know her a lil better...and MashAllah I really like her personality, she is down to earth, open-minded, works really hard...she a full time student and has a full time job and also volunteers (once a week)...yeah that does sound like kinda hard to do but honestly she ain't playin'...she is on top of her game!!! Waxaaba i cajabisay sida ay waarid keeda ooga hadasho, they trust her so much...and that says a lot about a girl walee!! I love how her younger siblings respect her and how much she helps them financially...she just bought her younger sister a car with her tax return + a lil bit of savings!! Today since I was working my butt of at the school library for my finals and ish...she offered to give me a ride to my house (I totalled my car )...thinking that my brother would bring take me to this other place that I needed to be...she again offered to take me where ever I wanted to go...and my brother was in the house and didn't even bothered to come outside after he saw her from the baqbaqa (lool)...I guess she really wanted to see him. Anywho, there is this one major problem...my brother does not wanna get to know her more....so my question is: what should I do? Toloow maxaan sameeyaa? I really want them together and ish...I brought up her name once and he just didn't like it! Oh and I forgot she is really beautiful...I am not lying

Did he say any reason?

Well You really cant force him to like her, she might sound like a good match but at the end of the day he has his own goals and interest in girls. Maybe there's a reason why his not after her.

He is like me, we like the Bad Chicks she seems boring and predictable...

some young guys , im one of them, do not like this kind of relationship.
they get ready financially and then look for a wife.

wo ka sah sahan yahay e iska daa ninka.

Olive,

You need to invite them to dinner in romantic restaurant, dont tell them they going to see each other, keep it surprise after dinner tell them how you feel about them getting to know each other better

There must be a reason why he doesn't want to get to know her better. Do a little digging & find out why.

She sounds great, but why is she so interested in him?

Kambuli and Serena,

Walahi I so badly want them to atleast talk to each other for a little while...to give her a chance and make me happy as well

Anyways, I am gonna find out why he doesn't like her...laakiin he is more secrative than I am so it would be kinda hard for me

Advo, that is true walaalkiis...laakiin she seems like a perfect match for him judging by his personality..I just don't understand why
he doesn't wanna go for her...but I'll do some digging.

Grandpa, I know my brother very well...he goes for classy chicks

Hyper, he will be 22 this year..its not like he will marry her, but I just want him to give her a chance and see where it goes. He has to graduate and get a career first...then think about settling like u said...hada lama jooga arintaas, although I would love them together!!!!


Moguul, lool sounds great but what if they both get mad at me...omg my brother would never talk to me again or won't trust me and I don't want that to happen...I love him so much!!

Your brother appears to be of the homosexual persuasion..And i'm getting sick of your "damsel-in-distress" antics..Make your decisions, girlfriend..

Love you.

Perfect_Order wrote:She sounds great, but why is she so interested in him?

Of course, there are a lot of girls running after my brother...he got the looks-the pretty boy swagga, personality, and well known...so girls nowadays seem to be very much interested in that

Seriously, can I have nis number or FB?

LionHeart-112 wrote:Your brother appears to be of the homosexual persuasion..And i'm getting sick of your "damsel-in-distress" antics..Make your decisions, girlfriend..

Love you.

Negro, what the hell are u talking about? I ain't playing no "damsel-in-distress" or whatever that is...be more specific mate

LionHeart-112 wrote:Seriously, can I have nis number or FB?

Waryaa heedhe hore baan kaaga shakiyey...horta ma qaniis baa tahay? Do ur friends know? Or did u tell anyone yet?

this sounds familiar.

maybe you should advice the girl to be more feminine and not stalk your brother also i can relate to your brother, looking for a girl is not really my priority right now but i do notice the shy ones but the persistent and initially over-confidant ones are not my type, they obviously been in the game for some time