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Dionysus wrote:good list. i agree with all. but number is 3 tough. there is hardly any girl out there who does not depend on her parents for some decisions. but a girl depending on her older or younger sister for anything is not good.

mvp wrote: 7. if her or her family put conditions on the marriege,....run, there is no prospect of happy life after....this kind of marriages are destined to fail

BlackVelvet wrote:lol@ no. 8

mvp wrote: 7. if her or her family put conditions on the marriege,....run, there is no prospect of happy life after....this kind of marriages are destined to fail

Do you mean something ridiculous like asking for a £50,000 wedding or mehr?

mvp wrote: 6. if she has tendency of attending weddings out of her family block....dump her......you will not afford to buy her a new diric every week

gedo_gurl wrote:

mvp wrote: 6. if she has tendency of attending weddings out of her family block....dump her......you will not afford to buy her a new diric every week

Bakheyl gacan adag waaxid..waraa waa xaaskaaga..and if she's attending every aroos possible, that means you are clearly not keeping her happy enough at home

mvp wrote:Guys what are some good illustrations that tells she ain't wifey type

let me start....following are the list of signs that make me run.....or consider one night stand.

1. if she says " l luv you" on your first date or when she burly knows you....consider one night stand..she has what i call jaceyl dikaak. you know wat they said " easy come easy come"

2. if she asks you money or shopping during the first weeks of your relationship....run she is a gold digger

3. if there is an older sister or a mama that she depends on when it comes decision making......let her go.. most likely her sister or mom will run your home....this is a tough one watch out....you can not solve a problem that some one outside your home is causing

4, if she is the type of women that always says I need instead of We need..... when it comes family issues or wedding issues,...disappear from her rader.....she needs a babysitter not a husband

5. if she talks about her previous relationship on your first date.....run
she is on rebound....99% tend to go back to their ex

6. if she has tendency of attending weddings out of her family block....dump her......you will not afford to buy her a new diric every week

7. if her or her family put conditions on the marriege,....run, there is no prospect of happy life after....this kind of marriages are destined to fail

8. if she is over 25 years old and still watchs BET and MTV.......not a good foundation for a muslim family...your future doughter will shake her asss on mtv spring breaksmvp

9. If all else fails, get an Indian wife.

sexy-kitten wrote:

mvp wrote:Guys what are some good illustrations that tells she ain't wifey type

let me start....following are the list of signs that make me run.....or consider one night stand.

1. if she says " l luv you" on your first date or when she burly knows you....consider one night stand..she has what i call jaceyl dikaak. you know wat they said " easy come easy come"

2. if she asks you money or shopping during the first weeks of your relationship....run she is a gold digger

3. if there is an older sister or a mama that she depends on when it comes decision making......let her go.. most likely her sister or mom will run your home....this is a tough one watch out....you can not solve a problem that some one outside your home is causing

4, if she is the type of women that always says I need instead of We need..... when it comes family issues or wedding issues,...disappear from her rader.....she needs a babysitter not a husband

5. if she talks about her previous relationship on your first date.....run
she is on rebound....99% tend to go back to their ex

6. if she has tendency of attending weddings out of her family block....dump her......you will not afford to buy her a new diric every week

7. if her or her family put conditions on the marriege,....run, there is no prospect of happy life after....this kind of marriages are destined to fail

8. if she is over 25 years old and still watchs BET and MTV.......not a good foundation for a muslim family...your future doughter will shake her asss on mtv spring breaksmvp

9. If all else fails, get an Indian wife.

Khatar yaah, you thought I didn't catch that? Ciyaal suuq waaxid.

mvp wrote: they should not be any kinda of conditions at all, like, i wanna have big wedding, two killos of gold, honeymoon vacation to hawwie.

BlackVelvet wrote:

mvp wrote: they should not be any kinda of conditions at all, like, i wanna have big wedding, two killos of gold, honeymoon vacation to hawwie.

Whatever happened to the balance dude. If you don't give her a big wedding, give her a nice honeymoon or a good house to come home to. Adiga it sounds like you want a free ride, all you will pay for is your taxi ride together from the mehr at the masjid to your old room in your mother's house.

BlackVelvet wrote:

mvp wrote: they should not be any kinda of conditions at all, like, i wanna have big wedding, two killos of gold, honeymoon vacation to hawwie.

Whatever happened to the balance dude. If you don't give her a big wedding, give her a nice honeymoon or a good house to come home to. Adiga it sounds like you want a free ride, all you will pay for is your taxi ride together from the mehr at the masjid to your old room in your mother's house.

Dionysus wrote:
it should be up to the guy to offer it and not for the girl to demand it. it takes the fun out of doing things for the person you want to share your life with. if anything, the girl should hint it to the dude but not outright demand it.