Ladies, what would you do?

[BlackVelvet]

Hypothetically speaking, imagine you were married to a man from a qabiil that traditionally does not get along with yours. Things go well despite this because qabiil has never been a part of your life in the first place. Now, one day when you're sitting together he gets a phone call and he seems pretty disturbed by the news he just received. Dude is shouting and cussing getting more upset my the minute. Saying things like "Maya maya, we can't let this happen, saas madhici karto..." By the time he's hung up, he's talking to himself seemingly in shock. You ask then what's wrong and he tells you. "My niece heblayo mexeey rabtaa in ey guursato nin oo qabiil X ah" Then you say, why are you so upset about that? He looks at you in shock and goes "ma gabar oo cidaheyna aa gursaneyso nin qolohaas katirsan, ma nin kale mey weysey? Uff akkhhh..." blah blah blah he goes on and on and on. Now you are sitting there wondering at which point he forgot that you yourself are qabiil X...

This man is still cussing, then all of a sudden he stops as though he just remembered something, then he slowly turns to look at you.

You...(insert your responce)

[Firefly]

Are you serious? I wouldn't marry an caaq in the first place!

[BlackVelvet]

Are you serious? I wouldn't marry an caaq in the first place!

Your response Firefly...

He was not an caaq when you were marrying him obviously.

[gedo_gurl]

Uff! Does this still happen with the dhalinyaro?

I would seek a divorce if he doesnt call and give the marriage the blessing and offer me an apology...we all deserve a second chance.

[Navy9]

Probably I will cash on that, it is good to know which buttons to press and which not if you want your marriage life to go on!

[Firefly]

Are you serious? I wouldn't marry an caaq in the first place!

Your response Firefly...

He was not an caaq when you were marrying him obviously.

But I said I wouldn't marry one..so yeah..

[Sir-Luggoyo]

[quote="BlackVelvet"]

Uff akkhhh..."

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If he says that, tell him to come out of the closet and wear his rainbow bandanna....


On a serious note, being a Somali man, he believes "Naagi tol ma leh" reason why he didn't give any consideration to your qabiil X. He was always subconsciously regarding you as his own, hence,his property, his qabiil.

[AbdiWahab252]

Uff akkhhh..."

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If he says that, tell him to come out of the closet and wear his rainbow bandanna....


On a serious note, being a Somali man, he believes "Naagi tol ma leh" reason why he didn't give any consideration to your qabiil X. He was always subconsciously regarding you as his own, hence,his property, his qabiil.

[surrender]

in the first place i would not marry someone thats not from my qabiil. heck ill marry a white before that. no offence. but say i did, and this happened. what would my response be... let me think....


hmmm....


i would tell him aabahaa iyo hooyada iyo tiikudhashayba wase, waraaq dayda iidhig and close the door behind. nacalatulaah calayk.

[AbdiWahab252]

in the first place i would not marry someone thats not from ym qabiil. heck ill marry a white before that. no ofence. but say i did, and this happened. what would my response be... let me think....


hmmm....


i would tell him aabahaa iyo hooyada iyo tiikudhashayba wase, waraaq dayda iidhig and close the door behind. nacalatulaah calayk.

Another reason to stay away from Rer Mudug women

[grandpakhalif]

he did nothing wrong once u marry the man his qabil comes first you give up your qabil understand?

[kambuli]

Acuudu Bilaah

BV,

How come she didn't know him in the first place? Kaasi ma isgaaba is qarin kara

[qoraxeey]

Hypothetically speaking, imagine you were married to a man from a qabiil that traditionally does not get along with yours. Things go well despite this because qabiil has never been a part of your life in the first place. Now, one day when you're sitting together he gets a phone call and he seems pretty disturbed by the news he just received. Dude is shouting and cussing getting more upset my the minute. Saying things like "Maya maya, we can't let this happen, saas madhici karto..." By the time he's hung up, he's talking to himself seemingly in shock. You ask then what's wrong and he tells you. "My niece heblayo mexeey rabtaa in ey guursato nin oo qabiil X ah" Then you say, why are you so upset about that? He looks at you in shock and goes "ma gabar oo cidaheyna aa gursaneyso nin qolohaas katirsan, ma nin kale mey weysey? Uff akkhhh..." blah blah blah he goes on and on and on. Now you are sitting there wondering at which point he forgot that you yourself are qabiil X...

This man is still cussing, then all of a sudden he stops as though he just remembered something, then he slowly turns to look at you.

You...(insert your responce)

Reminds me of my uncle

[SultanOrder]

BV you should be a comedian, i fell out of my chair laughing.


Now you know how the male relatives of your side reacted to your marriage.

[BlackVelvet]

Navy & GG respecting the sanctity of marriage above qabiil bashing, interesting.

LOL@ Surrender, you'd probably through your dacas at him for good measure

Are you serious? I wouldn't marry an caaq in the first place!

Your response Firefly...

He was not an caaq when you were marrying him obviously.

But I said I wouldn't marry one..so yeah..

Ok now I am confused, what does caaq mean? I don't think you are using CPoison's definition