A Friend Wants To Know..........

[AbdiWahab252]

How do you turn down the advances of a woman you have no particular interest to date without being frank ?

[Basra-]

..... Be cold, actively display uninterested sighs & signs. Unfriendly face, dismissive tone of voice, walk away fast etc etc .....Mention a girlfriend, avoid her routes,or hang outs, or if push comes to shove---Push the "I am gay" agenda. Or wear a wedding ring.

[AbdiWahab252]

..... Be cold, actively display uninterested sighs & signs. Unfriendly face, dismissive tone of voice, walk away fast etc etc .....Mention a girlfriend, avoid her routes,or hang outs, or if push comes to shove---Push the "I am gay" agenda. Or wear a wedding ring.

Basra-,

Interesting points. Now what is this chick has already done her homework, talked to your sisters, done a background check (talked to the town gossipers) at the Hair/Nail Salon

[Basra-]

lolAbdi

U r u in trouble then. IF she has access to your sisters-- i will kindly suggest to u to give in and marry her!

[BlackVelvet]

Give it to her straight or go out with another girl. Most women would sooner convince themselves that the guy in not answering his phone because he was abducted by aliens than believe it's because he's not interested.

[Dhaga Bacayl]

How do you turn down the advances of a woman you have no particular interest to date without being frank ?

Just tell her "I ain't feeling you showdy" ...she wil get the hint!

[AbdiWahab252]

Dhaga,

What if she replies, "I just want to feed you, abowe, its just dinner"



Basra-,

Its not me, but a friend.


Black Velvet,

Straight ? And say what specifically or explain why you are not into her.

[Cirwaaq]

Some women are like acquired tastes.

Perhabs your friend is just insecure about himself and rather then finding him a solution he asked for give him the solution he needs.

- Remind it is better to be liked then to like someone certainly more beneficial.

[Dhaga Bacayl]

Dhaga,

What if she replies, "I just want to feed you, abowe, its just dinner"



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Then hit it like a home run in the nine inning and flee.

[AbdiWahab252]

Cirwaaq,

Indeed, he is not insecure but is not up for lowering his standards in the chicks he dates. His ideal chick is under 25, high school drop out, and daft but very good looking.


Dhaga,

Fleeing makes sense. Yet this temptress has made it clear to his sisters that she desires him. How far will she go to relocate farax ?

[BlackVelvet]

Black Velvet,

Straight ? And say what specifically or explain why you are not into her.

Be like, "Carawelo I see what you're trying to do and you are a nice girl but it will never work out between us. I don't want to lead you on so am just laying it out there that I don't see you like that." Then to soften the blow..."you were probably just being friendly and I have embarrassed myself by taking it the wrong way but I wanted to let you know. Just in case."...Then depending on how much interaction you have to do in the future..."Anyway, now that that is cleared up, friends?"...

Unless she is psychotic she will avoid him like the plague.

[AbdiWahab252]

Black Velvet,

Straight ? And say what specifically or explain why you are not into her.

Be like, "Carawelo I see what you're trying to do and you are a nice girl but it will never work out between us. I don't want to lead you on so am just laying it out there that I don't see you like that." Then to soften the blow..."you were probably just being friendly and I have embarrassed myself by taking it the wrong way but I wanted to let you know. Just in case."...Then depending on how much interaction you have to do in the future..."Anyway, now that that is cleared up, friends?"...

Unless she is psychotic she will avoid him like the plague.

Brilliant Brilliant Dada Mweusi

[Cirwaaq]

For his sake then hope she is not one of those determined ones that hears wht she wants to hear. Even if she is rejected she has many tools in her kit.

- She can stamp a claim on his name in their area making it hard for him to get another girl.
- She can ask his best mate out e.g Abdi

For him to be asking for a gentle wayout i doubt he has Zero interest!

[AbdiWahab252]

Cirwaaq,

My friend is a recluse from the Somali community. His hunts are done discretely without others knowing much about it. So if she makes any claim, he can DENY, DENY....

As for making a play for me, I doubt it because I wouldn't go there at all. I am a respectable member of the community.

[Cirwaaq]

As for making a play for me, I doubt it because I wouldn't go there at all. I am a respectable member of the community.

So...?

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