Gosh, I wonder whether he feels really guilty divorcing his 1st wife.
It makes you wonder about how for hundreds of years Somali culture dictates to men that if your wife doesn’t conceive simply leave her.
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Cirwaaq wrote:This is not the Bush it makes no sense having more then 2 kids unless you are on Welfare.


Helwaa,HELWAA wrote:Cirwaaq wrote:This is not the Bush it makes no sense having more then 2 kids unless you are on Welfare.
only 2 kids..![]()
If u dont like kids dont even bother to have any.

BINGO! It's the women who spread the word that a man can't be fertile. Having a kid is all about finding the right woman, some find them earlier than others, just keep marrying themAdvo wrote:I will never get the test instead keep divorcing until I meet a magical xaliimo that makes me fertile? 163 divorces? so be it!

I think you mean: "Men can't be infertile?" And they can be actually, just 'cause Somali culture blames the women doesn't mean it's always the woman's fault.abdalla11 wrote:BINGO! It's the women who spread the word that a man can't be fertile. Having a kid is all about finding the right woman, some find them earlier than others, just keep marrying themAdvo wrote:I will never get the test instead keep divorcing until I meet a magical xaliimo that makes me fertile? 163 divorces? so be it!

That is madax wareer walaalo, if a person gets two healthy kids he/she should be thankful and raise them the best way the parent can. Why divide your resources on too many kids? I rather raise two kids, send them the best schools and let them enjoy life to the max on my life time and when I am gone, leave them plenty. I am more with the folks who chosen quality over quantityHELWAA wrote:Navy
Just Allah knows walaalo but if Allah bless you with healthy children why limit it.Just have as many as you can.

No, men can't be infertile atleast that is what we want to believeFirefly wrote:I think you mean: "Men can't be infertile?" And they can be actually, just 'cause Somali culture blames the women doesn't mean it's always the woman's fault.abdalla11 wrote:BINGO! It's the women who spread the word that a man can't be fertile. Having a kid is all about finding the right woman, some find them earlier than others, just keep marrying themAdvo wrote:I will never get the test instead keep divorcing until I meet a magical xaliimo that makes me fertile? 163 divorces? so be it!

