SOMALI MOTHER SHOULD ADVISE THEIR DAUGTHER LIKE SO!!!

[djibsomali]

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O my daughter, if it were deemed unnecessary to give you this advice because of good manners and noble descent, then it would have been unnecessary for you, because you posses these qualities, but it will serve as a reminder to those who are forgetful, and will help those who are wise.


‘O my daughter, if a woman were able to do without a husband by virtue of her father’s wealth and her need for her father, then you of all people would be most able to do without a husband, but women were created for men just as men were created for them.


‘O my daughter, you are about to leave the home in which you grew up, where you first learned to walk, to go to a place you do not know, to a companion to whom you are unfamiliar. By marrying you, he has become a master over you, so be like a servant to him, and he will become like a servant to you.


‘Take from me ten qualities, which will be a provision and a reminder for you.

‘The first and second of them are: be content in his company, and listen to and obey him, for contentment brings peace of mind, and listening to and obeying one’s husband pleases Allah.


‘The third and fourth of them are: make sure that you smell good and look good; he should not see anything ugly in you, and he should not smell anything but a pleasant smell from you. Kohl is the best kind of beautification to be found, and water is better than the rarest perfume.


‘The fifth and sixth of them are: prepare his food on time, and keep quiet when he is asleep, for raging hunger is like a burning flame, and disturbing his sleep will make him angry.


‘The seventh and eighth of them are: take care of his servants (or employees) and children, and take care of his wealth, for taking care of his wealth shows that you appreciate him, and taking care of his children and servants shows good management.


‘The ninth and tenth of them are: never disclose any of his secrets, and never disobey any of his orders, for if you disclose any of his secrets you will never feel safe from his possible betrayal, and if you disobey him, his heart will be filled with hatred towards you.


‘Be careful, O my daughter, of showing joy in front of him when he is upset, and do not show sorrow in front of him when he is happy, because the former shows a lack of judgment whilst the latter will make him unhappy.


‘Show him as much honor and respect as you can, and agree with him as much as you can, so that he will enjoy your companionship and conversation.


‘Know, O my daughter, that you will not achieve what you would like to until you put his pleasure before your own, and his wishes before yours, in whatever you like and dislike. And may Allah choose what is best for you and protect you.”

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Not like somali woman style .. naa hadad ninkaa fahmiweydo, iskaga soo carar.. waa niin baad wayee

[djibsomali]

I had to bring this thread back up!!

when i think the girls we got now and this girl on this thread.
I believe the difference is between Evil and Angel.


I believe there is no success on marrying any girl who is educating in western countries, all the bring on the table is disrecpect, unhapiness, no children (even if they got 1 or 2 they are a bunch of handicap kids).

[BlackVelvet]

‘The third and fourth of them are: make sure that you smell good and look good; he should not see anything ugly in you, and he should not smell anything but a pleasant smell from you. Kohl is the best kind of beautification to be found, and water is better than the rarest perfume.

No can do, kohl is xaraam! Al Shabab said so

[djibsomali]

khol naa may xarantimeyeen??

did they think it is made of alcohol?

[BlackVelvet]

It's made for the evil seductress to entice the Shabab fighters to lift their niqaab

Horta why do they cover their faces like naago carab do they think they're living in the Arabian desert just because they're Wahabi?

[djibsomali]

no hiding the face is just tactical.

You would not understand but it is a good practice in this war against the evil (TFG + USA+ moryans + other gorillaz from africa)

[BlackVelvet]

lol@ you would not understand. Let's not open that can of worms

Judging from their actions these people are plain old terrorists.

Back to the topic, makes one want to gag, long live the short haired man hating feminists

[Navy9]

I took this in school some million years ago

[gedo_gurl]

Is this an adaptation of the centuries old 'Utenzi wa Mwana Kupona' by Mwana Kupona, the Swahili aristocrat and poet? If not, its plagiarized from her.

[djibsomali]

I got no idea where it came from originally.

Just got it from this world wide think of web

[Mad May]

The first and second of them are: be content in his company, and listen to and obey him, for contentment brings peace of mind

prepare his food on time, and keep quiet when he is asleep, for raging hunger is like a burning flame, and disturbing his sleep will make him angry.

agree with him as much as you can, so that he will enjoy your companionship and conversation.

What kind of conversation is this?

[djibsomali]

The first and second of them are: be content in his company, and listen to and obey him, for contentment brings peace of mind

prepare his food on time, and keep quiet when he is asleep, for raging hunger is like a burning flame, and disturbing his sleep will make him angry.

agree with him as much as you can, so that he will enjoy your companionship and conversation.

What kind of conversation is this?

choosing and picking up part of the coversation bring up you inner self and unconscious teaching you aquired along your schooling.

You lot a constantly battling against nature (as western called it) or Allah infinit wisdom as i would say it

[grandpakhalif]

lol@ you would not understand. Let's not open that can of worms

Judging from their actions these people are plain old terrorists.

Back to the topic, makes one want to gag, long live the short haired man hating feminists

Whos that man? Why are Shabab terrorists?

[Mad May]

Djib, agreeing with someone ad infinitum does not a conversation make.

[djibsomali]

Djib, agreeing with someone ad infinitum does not a conversation make.

Could you modernise these 10 commandments from the mother?