21st Century Courtship

Daily chitchat.

Moderators: Moderators, Junior Moderators

Forum rules
This General Forum is for general discussions from daily chitchat to more serious discussions among Somalinet Forums members. Please do not use it as your Personal Message center (PM). If you want to contact a particular person or a group of people, please use the PM feature. If you want to contact the moderators, pls PM them. If you insist leaving a public message for the mods or other members, it will be deleted.

Do you think the woman should be the one to pursue the man?

Yes
9
50%
No
9
50%
 
Total votes: 18

User avatar
BlackVelvet
SomaliNet Super
SomaliNet Super
Posts: 23249
Joined: Thu Mar 11, 2010 2:54 pm
Location: On Idman's mind

21st Century Courtship

Post by BlackVelvet »

Inspired by Caddoow's post.

Ladies and Gents, who do you believe is required to take initiative in attempting to create a romantic relationship between a man and a woman? Most women I know expect the man to be the one to make the first call. Has that changed...how does that affect the dynamics in the relationship?

Gents would you want a woman to pursue you and how would you see a woman who did? Ladies would you flat out pursue a man? Note the difference between hinting/encouraging and pursuing. Generally women make the first move if they're interested, be it a glance or a smile.

Vote/discuss
Koronto60
Posts: 218
Joined: Sun Apr 04, 2010 11:35 am

Re: 21st Century Courtship

Post by Koronto60 »

I voted No.

Time's might have changed, but we're still pretty much primitive beings.

If a man wants you, he'll come for you, if he doesn't come it means the obvious.
User avatar
gedo_gurl
SomaliNet Super
SomaliNet Super
Posts: 9331
Joined: Sun Sep 14, 2003 7:00 pm
Location: Habartaa Buufkeed....!
Contact:

Re: 21st Century Courtship

Post by gedo_gurl »

21st century courtship in Snet

"Marry us or die"
"Marry me if you like rape"

I would say that if the man is too much of a bussiie that yeah, the woman should go for it...if she likes that sort of thing (naago).
User avatar
GENERAL_SNM
SomaliNet Super
SomaliNet Super
Posts: 9757
Joined: Fri Jul 13, 2007 1:32 pm
Location: ''Nimankii Maroodiga ahaa mudanki reer Daahir''

Re: 21st Century Courtship

Post by GENERAL_SNM »

The man has to do the chasing. Be the hunter. If a women plays this role its obvious, she's a lesbian.
User avatar
gedo_gurl
SomaliNet Super
SomaliNet Super
Posts: 9331
Joined: Sun Sep 14, 2003 7:00 pm
Location: Habartaa Buufkeed....!
Contact:

Re: 21st Century Courtship

Post by gedo_gurl »

^^ Dont echo me without acknowledging my genius...thats intellectual property rights violation Ill have you know :|
User avatar
GENERAL_SNM
SomaliNet Super
SomaliNet Super
Posts: 9757
Joined: Fri Jul 13, 2007 1:32 pm
Location: ''Nimankii Maroodiga ahaa mudanki reer Daahir''

Re: 21st Century Courtship

Post by GENERAL_SNM »

They say great minds think alike. :up:
User avatar
Cirwaaq
SomaliNet Super
SomaliNet Super
Posts: 6472
Joined: Wed Mar 24, 2010 2:37 pm
Location: Event Horizon periphery... HIILumination

Re: 21st Century Courtship

Post by Cirwaaq »

For those that believe there will always be plenthy of buses to follow the one they missed... They need to be told some bus stops are Request Only and the Bus will never stop till you stick your handout.
User avatar
eyes-only
SomaliNet Super
SomaliNet Super
Posts: 5652
Joined: Sun Apr 30, 2006 2:30 pm
Location: ** Xamar-Caddey**

Re: 21st Century Courtship

Post by eyes-only »

Someone I know thinks its cheap and tacky but I think there's nothing wrong with giving a hint ;)

Btw BV, are you going to keep your pm disabled?
User avatar
Ganjaweed
SomaliNet Heavyweight
SomaliNet Heavyweight
Posts: 1695
Joined: Wed Jul 09, 2008 2:20 pm
Location: Beyna As-saaqeyn Ummak

Re: 21st Century Courtship

Post by Ganjaweed »

Don't upset the natural order of things. The man does the chasing :up:.

Image
User avatar
BlackVelvet
SomaliNet Super
SomaliNet Super
Posts: 23249
Joined: Thu Mar 11, 2010 2:54 pm
Location: On Idman's mind

Re: 21st Century Courtship

Post by BlackVelvet »

Cirwaaq wrote:For those that believe there will always be plenthy of buses to follow the one they missed... They need to be told some bus stops are Request Only and the Bus will never stop till you stick your handout.

Any hand?

Image

I just missed this old woman :mrgreen:
User avatar
BlackVelvet
SomaliNet Super
SomaliNet Super
Posts: 23249
Joined: Thu Mar 11, 2010 2:54 pm
Location: On Idman's mind

Re: 21st Century Courtship

Post by BlackVelvet »

gedo_gurl wrote:21st century courtship in Snet

"Marry us or die"
"Marry me if you like rape"

I would say that if the man is too much of a bussiie that yeah, the woman should go for it...if she likes that sort of thing (naago).
:lol:
User avatar
gedo_gurl
SomaliNet Super
SomaliNet Super
Posts: 9331
Joined: Sun Sep 14, 2003 7:00 pm
Location: Habartaa Buufkeed....!
Contact:

Re: 21st Century Courtship

Post by gedo_gurl »

BV...meeshaanu waa xeero dugaag (if there is such a thing lol) Im scared for my life just posting here...what if they start kidnapping 'wives' like in Kyrgyzstan :lol:
User avatar
BlackVelvet
SomaliNet Super
SomaliNet Super
Posts: 23249
Joined: Thu Mar 11, 2010 2:54 pm
Location: On Idman's mind

Re: 21st Century Courtship

Post by BlackVelvet »

GG they do that in Kenya!

According to my teacher you had to make sufficient noise so as it was clear that you were an unwilling kidnapee (if such a word exists) :mrgreen:
User avatar
gedo_gurl
SomaliNet Super
SomaliNet Super
Posts: 9331
Joined: Sun Sep 14, 2003 7:00 pm
Location: Habartaa Buufkeed....!
Contact:

Re: 21st Century Courtship

Post by gedo_gurl »

Whaaaaaat!? Which group kidnap women? ba'ayeey! I hope they keep it in the family :? :shock:
grandpakhalif
SomaliNet Super
SomaliNet Super
Posts: 30687
Joined: Tue Sep 01, 2009 10:32 am
Location: Darul Kufr
Contact:

Re: 21st Century Courtship

Post by grandpakhalif »

Courtship? Before or after marriage? What ever happened to the chivalrous men like me? :D
Locked
  • Similar Topics
    Replies
    Views
    Last post

Return to “General - General Discussions”