Confused about a friend's behavior....

[*zabah]

I thought I'd come and share this in here, as it's always good to get things off your chest a little before you actually say what you're going to say in real life.

Basically, my best friend of the last 13 years has in recent months, begun to get a tad sarky and snotty about things that a year or so ago, I know she wouldn't have. When I first noticed it, I tried asking if I'd done something to annoy her and she said no, everything was fine; at the same time, I couldn't help noticing that she was picking holes in anything and everything I said. I brushed it off, asked again if something was wrong, and then it all came to a head a few days ago when something I said was taken totally the wrong way. I made a flippant comment, she thought it was aimed at her and she had a total freak out on me.

Now, I'm certainly not averse to being told what's what if I know I've messed up and I'll always apologise and try and make amends if I know I've upset someone, which is what I did, because we've been through a fair bit together and I think a lot of her. It's how she responded that I didn't expect!

I don't know, I've tried making it right with her, but I'm getting to the point now where if I get one more pointless bit of sarcasm, then that'll be that and I just won't make the effort anymore. It's a shame, but I don't see what else I can do.

Any ideas?

[Advo]

I think she's going through something maybe she lost all confidence she had or something along those lines that make her super alert and scanning for anything sensitive to her ego/feelings. I must say you two need a break from one another. 13 years is a long time and calls for some time apart. I would say 6 month break

[djibsomali]

I think she's going through something maybe she lost all confidence she had or something along those lines that make her super alert and scanning for anything sensitive to her ego/feelings. I must say you two need a break from one another. 13 years is a long time and calls for some time apart. I would say 6 month break

You are actually a bad advisor or councillor!

how can you assess it when you don't know the circumtances???

[Aristokraft]

Your friend sounds like she needs to get laid. No offense.

[Advo]

djibouti it's simple

I dont even like seeing my close friends on weekdays, just weekends because it get's boring and repetitive hadii la'is arko. dadka jiniyahooda baa isnaceb to be frank. So a break is a good idea cus of the excitement to see one another build up nooh.

[FAH1223]

Your friend sounds like she needs to get laid. No offense.

[grandpakhalif]

Your friend sounds like she needs to get laid. No offense.

Subxanallah isku xishood

[BlackVelvet]

Say your piece, tell her where you stand or before you know it you find yourself calling her a bitch and all hell breaks loose, speaking from experience here. Decide how much you value the friendship then go from there, a break might not be a bad idea, it's easy to get sick of some people

[Hyperactive]

how old she is?
from online experience i found 25+ none married women have an attitude , sensitive and want to fight just sake of it.

[BlackVelvet]

^ interesting observation, lakin I have a feeling those ones are just unhappily married pretending to be single

[surrender]

theres two sides to every stroy, i dont like jumping into conclusion about stuff like this, but i would suggest you give her a chance, talk to her, tell her how you feel, and after all that if she still like this, then maybe you not meant to be friends. just move on, without picking a cat fight with her, move on.

[Hyperactive]

^ interesting observation, lakin I have a feeling those ones are just unhappily married pretending to be single

wa laka yaaba huuno. every thing is possible but elder women wa wada attitude and they think you're young farah, therefore automatically a looser.

[qoraxeey]

how old she is?
from online experience i found 25+ none married women have an attitude , sensitive and want to fight just sake of it.

[Basra-]

Nayaa fat lesbian zabaah aka Advo-----your lover is jealous of you. She suspects u have cheated on her. Come out clean or there will be hell to answer to. Good luck macaanto.

[qoraxeey]

Nayaa fat lesbian zabaah aka Advo-----your lover is jealous of you. She suspects u have cheated on her. Come out clean or there will be hell to answer to. Good luck macaanto.

stop calling people lesbain uuf