IMAGINE

[1nemansquad]

You have a friend who is dear to you. That friend has been married for nearly 9 years, they are very happy with their partner. Love them dearly and wouldn't want to lose what they have. But there is a major problem. Both of their families have a toxic relationship and its about to tear this family apart and of one them is dead set on walking away from the marriage.

What would you tell them, how would tell them to stay in their marriage and don't walk away? Beautiful young family being torn apart, because of ego, selfishness and plain stupidity. (women)

Your thoughts please.

[Basra-]

1nemansquad


I seriously dont see the necessity of u coming to the forum and bashing women, your fellow race. I dont get it. Akhaas farabuto firikiano fankulo waxiid!



To the subject: Well ----caalaf waa caalaf.....perhaps it is better for them to split. These 'women'..didnt stop them from spliting when they got together right>? I am sure tension existed then also, but somehow they cant overcome that now?I say let things be as they will be!

[HELWAA]

Wax kasta waa qoraal..hadi ilaahy o qoray iney kala tagaan way kala tagiy hadi kalana way wada joogi.

[zulaika]

You have a friend who is dear to you. That friend has been married for nearly 9 years, they are very happy with their partner. Love them dearly and wouldn't want to lose what they have. But there is a major problem. Both of their families have a toxic relationship and its about to tear this family apart and of one them is dead set on walking away from the marriage.

What would you tell them, how would tell them to stay in their marriage and don't walk away? Beautiful young family being torn apart, because of ego, selfishness and plain stupidity. (women)

Your thoughts please.

so from what i gather, this is more than outside influence tearing the marriage apart...you blame women here so i would assume your friend is the man and his wife is causing the trouble or at least yielding to the destructive outside influence.......do i read you right sir?

[1nemansquad]

Actually I care about them both as a family even though yes I'm friends with the dude. And yes its her that wants to destroy the marriage just because she can't handle outside influences. He is just about had enough but I keep telling Akhi stay patient. We even talked to my dad since he doesn't have a father and said the same thing to stay patient. But the question is for how long?

[Basra-]

waryaa buurtooy loool why dont u mind your own affairs?

[*Nobleman*]

Walahi I have seen quite a number of marriages break down due to interference from the wifes family. I dont know why woman in a marriage dont ignore all these external influences. The womans family always come with very irational demands, from big expensive weddings, even though the couple cannot afford it, to even pressing for divorce papers when the couple have minor issues. May come across as harsh or biased, but thats just my experiences.

[Paisa]

Tell your friend to cut his losses and walk away now and make sure he builds/consults a good litigation lawyer when she/her family sue him. Nine yrs is not enough to denounce your parental family over a tail even if she´s the mother of his kids. Eventually he will regret and be dissapointed with her.

[zulaika]

Walahi I have seen quite a number of marriages break down due to interference from the wifes family. I dont know why woman in a marriage dont ignore all these external influences. The womans family always come with very irational demands, from big expensive weddings, even though the couple cannot afford it, to even pressing for divorce papers when the couple have minor issues. May come across as harsh or biased, but thats just my experiences.

if he is good to her and she know what is good for her, then she will definitely ignore all those shytaan whispers.....its not always as one sided as you're making it out to be walalo.