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[shaamboo]

As i was scanning /reading pages on BP i came across this one and the sht that she had on page was funny and stupid. So i tought i will share with my fellow malis Xalimos please have ur say !!!


Hi everyone on BP! OK I've been on here for a while now and I've meet a few of you and talked to alot of you, but until now i haven't written a REAL personal message. I think it's time because I can see I need to get specific about what I'm looking for in a man. For those of you men that have not heard about Steve Harvey's new book Act Like A Lady, Think Like A Man, go and get it.Some of you need 2take some notes. The book is directed at women who are trying to find a good man, but I think men should read it too because it also tells you what WE want too. Ok first of all, men don't even think about stepping to me or any other woman if you don't have ur %#&@$! together. This meaning, you are not ready to seriously be with any woman unless you can Profess, Protect, and Provide. Let me break it down for you all. Profess means when you are into a woman or u love her you are not afraid to tell anyone and everyone in anyway shape or form. This includes your family, friends, co-workers, and people on the internet! (you know who you are) Protect means when you love that woman you are willing to do anything to protect her in any way from anything or anybody that would hurt or harm her. This includes if something is bothering her you are willing to go into fix-it mode and try to help the sitiuation no matter how big or small the problem may be. Sometimes it doesn't even require an action, just a reaction. Meaning if you just want to blow off the problem and think its going to go away ur wrong. We don't think like that we want to resolve it and be happy again. Relationships take work and time and if your not willing to do that then DON'T get in one! Provide means if you as a man are not established in your life with your career, your finances, a place of your own, and a form of transportation (these are the basics guys) then you are not ready to be a provider in a relationship. You cant even support yourself so how are you going to support a family! Now in support of my fine black men--- you need three basic things too. Loyalty, Support, and the Cookie (you know what that means guys:. I think you can all agree on these things. If a woman isn't going to be loyal, supportive, and holds out on sex you're not gonna want to be with her. You'll go find it elsewhere. So if we are upholding our part in the relationship 110% we expect the same in return. R-E-S-P-E-C-T I can't say it enough. It comes in all forms guys. From opening a door for a lady, pulling out her chair, to not cheating, not taking a womans body for granted, if she has children, you should be understanding about what it's like for her to be a single mom and all the responsibilities she has. Also in the cheating catagory I need to include strip clubs. I sincerely doubt any man would want another mans %#&@$! being waved in front of his womans face, so why would you have some stripper sticking her breasts and %#&@$! in yours? When you say I LOVE YOU to a woman or your say your vows on your wedding day, you have to take it seriously. This means everyday and in every way. Now if your a single guy great, get it all out while your still single, but if you are in a commited relationship or marriage this is a no no. So don't even try to approach me either. Ok I think i've given you enough clues as to the kind of man I'm looking for and I hope you all took the time to read this because if you didn't and you still try to come at me with some bull%#&@$!, I'm gonna tell you to go back and re-read this. Thats all for now guys and good luck with the ladies!