Only if your Parents were DIVORCED come In

[hanad_mn]

Folks,

I would like to know what is like to grow up in a divorced family. Please share some of the pros and cons of growing up in a divorced family. does it make a difference to have a step Dad or Step Mom?

Remember there is no ceeb In what allah has made xalaal. So divorce is Xalaal and it happens according to Allah plans just like death happens.

So lets discuss. I am sorry I don't have the experience coz my parents are still married upto now.

[hanad_mn]

do you want us to believe of all the 15 people that looked at this thread, no one is from a divorced family?

i think some of you think it is ashame to be of divorced family. Ceeb maaha furiinka.

From Previous comments, the following people already admited to be from divorced family.

Nalia, Helwaa and Nabeela. eedo Kambuli also knows more about it snce she is divorced herself.

Lets go back to the topic..

what is the pros and cons of being from a divorced family.

[HELWAA]

I never said my parents are divorced ee nacald yahy been ha iga sheegin.

Not that there is anything wrong with divorce, wax kasta waa qadar.Women who leave
bad marrigaes are brave walle.

[pudding]

It is more than a fortnight since I joined the Somali net Community forum, what I have observed since then is dozens of angry people!!! seriously people you need to take anger management classes!!!

Horta why are we somalis short tempered?
Yaab badanaa
waa amud wada dhiikar qabta
Bismilaah

[HaileyBailey]

Divorce is a new phenomena, impacting new generation Somalis. Most of the older generation couples are still together. My parents are still together and none of their friends are divorced. I think back in somalia divorce was a taboo and very shameful, also if there was any problems within the marriage the tribal elders and families would get involved and help solve the couples problems. Result, no divorce. Also, the generation older than our parents never got divorced, I don't know anyones grandmother/father who got divorced, they accepted polygamy and lived it.

[xoogSADE14]

Furiin is a recent phenomenon in Somalia culture sxb. Before the 90s only a small percentage of Somali couples got divorces. People worked through their problems.

[djibsomali]

anyone from a broken family must have a bad mum.

a man who is over 15 and still accept his mum to be single and open for one nigth stand should hang himself or disown his mum.

qaax tuufoo who ever wake up in the same house as his single mum