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there are many young women and older habro who are doing that in my town

and some are lucky . others not

Whats wrong with men back home, they are decent and loving.

Wallahi i have met some great Men down there, inteligent, hardworkers, educated, all they need is an opportunity and they would thrive in the west.

Helwaa

thats what I have heard

many girls do that now !

lakin all are not lucky ,, some are get used .. and most men lie , cuz they already have other wife and children from before

PO

i get ya . but some are also heartless .. some women are looking for love
and they maybe are just looking for a chance to get out of africa

Belo

only Somali men from diaspora can get a wifey back home

not otherway round

dumarka in the diaspora are already struggling to get a man from Diaspora madaame asaga back home mid ka doonaya

CoolP

why not the other way around

i've seen it alot

some are good lovers and very appreciative, I'm talking about dhalinyartaa

dumarka from diaspora need to become 2nd or 3rd wives

They already outnumber the men and have to compete

assalamu aleykum,

If the two people are compatible, why not ?. then again coming from somalia to West is a big transition. not everyone adapts..

Also is this actually prevalent in the somali community, Women getting husbands from back home ?.

qoraxeey wrote:Helwaa

thats what I have heard

many girls do that now !

lakin all are not lucky ,, some are get used .. and most men lie , cuz they already have other wife and children from before

That how life is and everthing is qadar.You cant change ur destiny and Allah knows best.

CoolP

thats why many women from here marry men from somalia , yemen & kenya

there are no men here in the west... other wise u have to be maybe wife 2 or 3

thats why they go to africa

here its only ciyaal suuq boys & married men

Helwaa

waa ruun wax kaste wa qadar . lakinse u cant help but wonder lolz

fisabililah wrote:assalamu aleykum,

If the two people are compatible, why not ?. then again coming from somalia to West is a big transition. not everyone adapts..

Also is this actually prevalent in the somali community, Women getting husbands from back home ?.

yes walaal . in my town i've seen it alot

one women 32 + never married .. got a man who lived in an arab country ( yemen ) , now they have 3 kids

That's a dumb idea! How could u cross oceans to claim your Farah! There are a plenty of somali fish in your pond and all what u need is some skill. http://www.somalinet.com/singles. can be your starting point