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My friend and I got into a heated debate yesterday about this touchy topic. He says that lust overpowers love and that there is no love. His argument is as long as the lust is still burning, the relationship will still be there but there is absolutely no such thing as love. He even went as far as giving me mammal examples saying that mammals love to fuck, you don't see them in love(like he knows how mammals feel.) He included how guys cheat on their wives or even go to marry other wives as all being part of lust.

My argument is love can exist if you give it time. Love is not only about two people who are insanely passionate about each other. You obviously love your parents and siblings, you love your car, you love your friends.

Do you guys think that love exists? Can it be an internal emotion?

You're getting soft.

No such thing as love, only lust

Im going in, im going in, im going in, im going in
and imma go hard, and imma go hard, and imma go hard
bitch, im going in, im going in, im going in, im going in
and imma go had and imma go hard and imma go hard

It's love or Lust,
Lust is someone you wanna touch
Love is someone you need!

I don't know about lust, but love does exists, and you know it's love and not lust, when your spouse spits xaaqo in your mouth and you smile without feeling disgusted.

grandpakhalif wrote:Im going in, im going in, im going in, im going in
and imma go hard, and imma go hard, and imma go hard
bitch, im going in, im going in, im going in, im going in
and imma go had and imma go hard and imma go hard

Nabeela wrote:I don't know about lust, but love does exists, and you know it's love and not lust, when your spouse spits xaaqo in your mouth and you smile without feeling disgusted.

What the heck?

Nabeela wrote:I don't know about lust, but love does exists, and you know it's love and not lust, when your spouse spits xaaqo in your mouth and you smile without feeling disgusted.

?

and this question comes from a user named sexy-kitten ? love exists. and lust can be confused for love.

Nabeela wrote:I don't know about lust, but love does exists, and you know it's love and not lust, when your spouse spits xaaqo in your mouth and you smile without feeling disgusted.

WTF .....Shan ltr all in the mouth

[quote="Nabeela"]I don't know about lust, but love does exists, and you know it's love and not lust, when your spouse spits xaaqo in your mouth and you smile without feeling disgusted.[/quote]


WTF????

Love doesn't exist before marriage. True love comes right after marriage, and those of you who are married could agree with me on this. Anything before Guur is just a pure lust and Laab-La-Kac....

Nabeela wrote:I don't know about lust, but love does exists, and you know it's love and not lust, when your spouse spits xaaqo in your mouth and you smile without feeling disgusted.

WEIRDO

Lust comes before love. SO yes, lust trumps love. There is NO love if lust has not happened. I have actually done an experiment on myself. I met this guy at work--very cute. Luckily he was checking me out, so that really gave me a green light to my project. He was physically my type, upto to the blonde--wished it was blue eyed, but i settled with his green eyes, which turn out to be even better.So here i was thinking wow---this guy is soooooooooo cute-- and attractive. Before i know it-- he was checking me out more-- and suddenly i started imagining him in his boxers--and on and on and on....

Eventually i reached a point where i was deeply in love---that it hard to come to work.Now is that lust? Of course yes. I would blush--all rosey and red, very disgusting behavior when i meet him in the hallway. At full disclosure-- i have to admit---i went into this crush adventure with full experiment mode. I remember exactly the day i decided to fall in love with him. Also i was curious what it will feel to fall in love with an cadaan--as opposed to my obsession with cadaan celebrities. Anyway, to cut a long story short, we both ended up falling for each other.(he practically stalked me aggressively) However, he was serious and i was not.I just wanted to know how it feels like falling inlove with an cadaan cute guy. Yes, i beg your pardon, i was bored. I mean, i was physically and heartily in lust for him?---in love? I really didnt want to take it beyond a crush---u know---- due to my poor marehaan husband and all.

Anyway--Chris --ended up quiting the job when he realized i was playing a game. But i was not-- i was doing an experiment on what is love or lust.or how does it feel to fall for an cadaan. I discovered --lust--takes u over initially. Basically, a part of your brain is locked into permanent fixture. Love then develops-where u care for the person, unconditional care and well being. When u put the other person before yourself--then is when u know u r in love. But without lust---love is empty or unimportant.



Have i confessed too much? do u think i am a mad scientist?