Sexual Intercourse

[RuralMan08]

Why must we shy away from this topic and discuss it only behind close doors or luuqs?

I believe that sex is a very honorable clean act that should be viewed without tabboo. It is very enjoyable and it creates love and it also it has the power to give life or death (Let it all out inside her and a new life is on its way, let it all out outside of her and no life = death).

Women need to stop complaining when they say: "Its all about sex with guys". They should know that sex help develop intimate connections with your soulmate and a specific hormone is released during intercourse that develops the bond and natural love that exists between husband and wife.

We have also been unfair to women folk, we always seem to finish the job half done (according to most women). Next time we should fulfill our wife's desires until she says khalaas huuno thats enough for tonight waan daalay. Guys its ok you have sexual problems such as premature ejaculation but these can be rectified, when you think you are about to crash land just think about Hitler and World War II and George Bush Senior and then wallahi you will find that the crash landing will delay for another couple of minutes. Sex is negotiation, if you try to understand it, it will understand you.

Sex is great.

P.S This is between husband and wife, I do not condone pre-marital fornication

[marcassmith]

This is the official Shia position?

[RuralMan08]

The official Islamic position is that both parties be satisfied.

This includes doing all sorts of acts in foreplay. Anything that she wants you do!

We cannotuse premature ejaculation as an excuse anymore!

[Estarix]

It is very enjoyable and it creates love and it also it has the power to give life or death (Let it all out inside her and a new life is on its way, let it all out outside of her and no life = death).

Sxb, this only applies to your wife, inta kalle waa qashin iyo xarim.

[RuralMan08]

It is very enjoyable and it creates love and it also it has the power to give life or death (Let it all out inside her and a new life is on its way, let it all out outside of her and no life = death).

Sxb, this only applies to your wife, inta kalle waa qashin iyo xarim.

Yes read my disclaimer at the bottom, it clearly says I dont encourage pre-marital sex. That is haraam and completely forbidden. But I m talking about exploring your sexual senses within the boundaries of our Deen to utilise it as best.

[sexy-kitten]

It is very enjoyable and it creates love and it also it has the power to give life or death (Let it all out inside her and a new life is on its way, let it all out outside of her and no life = death).

We all know that sex is not such a horrible thing. We were raised to ignore that it even existed! My mom doesn't like to talk about sex just as much as I dislike hearing her talking about it. I have 2 funny aunts who'll tell it like it is though! No one spoke a word of it when two people got married as we knew what the newlyweds were getting into.

[Estarix]

Ye think most people here are married here? secondly many fear of the chance spies could report to your parents about what you wrote.

[RuralMan08]

We all know that sex is not such a horrible thing. We were raised to ignore that it even existed! My mom doesn't like to talk about sex just as much as I dislike hearing her talking about it. I have 2 funny aunts who'll tell it like it is though! No one spoke a word of it when two people got married as we knew what the newlyweds were getting into.

This is what we need, we shoudl be transparent in teaching our younger ones about sex according to the Islamic viewpoint thus not creating any confusion. But I also truly believe that women and men both need to be educated in sexual arts. We need to explore all sexual positions available to humankind and write it down in a book. I believe that we have to take sex seriously.

Because sex should be done properly, just like driving an airplane, if you get excited you will land before schedule

Estarix I dont understand

[James Dahl]

It's true that fidelity to your spouse doesn't mean not enjoying procreation, that's just prudishness to view the sexual act as dirty or ungodly.

I think the problem started when, with the advent of more and more sophisticated contraceptives, religious people opposed them for a variety of reasons, but that basically created a logical chain of events.

1) contraceptives are bad
2) therefore sex should only be for procreation
3) therefore sex for enjoyment is bad
4) therefore enjoying sex is bad

This attitude is not supported by any religious text or anecdote from the Prophet or Jesus or anybody, it's entirely an invention of the modern world.

[SultanOrder]

lol James your whole chain of assumptions are wrong.

[RuralMan08]

It's true that fidelity to your spouse doesn't mean not enjoying procreation, that's just prudishness to view the sexual act as dirty or ungodly.

I think the problem started when, with the advent of more and more sophisticated contraceptives, religious people opposed them for a variety of reasons, but that basically created a logical chain of events.

1) contraceptives are bad
2) therefore sex should only be for procreation
3) therefore sex for enjoyment is bad
4) therefore enjoying sex is bad

This attitude is not supported by any religious text or anecdote from the Prophet or Jesus or anybody, it's entirely an invention of the modern world.

I need to analyse this further because you make a lot of sense!

[Estarix]

Its sad to see that you already view the sexual revolution that occured in the west in multiple waves since the 1960s as normal and seem to want to integrate it to Somali culture , your views on f-king leads to such deploring state of society.
Waa sidaas.

[The-Screw]

there's a guy i know who i believe is around mid to late 30's, he's been married for 7 years now and has six kids and another one on the way. that's all anyone needs to know about sex.

[Estarix]

^
That the dude cant have enough of it.

[RuralMan08]

Its sad to see that you already view the sexual revolution that occured in the west in multiple waves since the 1960s as normal and seem to want to integrate it to Somali culture , your views on f-king leads to such deploring state of society.
Waa sidaas.

Whats truly sad is years of premature ejaculation, climax problems, femenism (kintir emancipation revolution) have destroyed and taken away the one thing we could enjoy in regards to the other gender, and that is sex.

There is no revolution, we as Muslims believe that we must beautify ourself for our other half and we must be attracted and attraction leads to sex.