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I know this subject/topic has been beaten to death on here and all, but still. My question is would you ever hit a woman if she provoked you, or under any circumstances? the main reason I'm asking waa some men show a such great restrain, when put in a difficult situation and some obviously lose control and do some damage, markaa which category do you think you belong to, the former one misa the latter one?

Recently I was at close qarabo's house, when a sudden fight broke out between the husband and the wife. It started with harmless yelling but it slowly turned into physical, the wife started beating the shit out of the husband and chase him around the house with a dacas lol (it was a funny scene) The husband simply walked away when he realized xaalata inaay xun tahay, even though she was hitting him, he never laid a hand on her, gacan baa u tagay.


P.S...I didn't stop the fight because I was in shock .

Waa la iska qabtaa but real man don't beat a lady. No beating but iska qabo and find a way out until things calm down.

i was not put in that situation hadana Allah ban magan galay.

it's easy to say i would never put my hand on woman , but honestly qeylada iyo disrespect marko bilowdo im out of it.

My pride wouldn't allow me to hit back.

Also, if I hit her back I will cause more damage to her than she caused to me when she hit me first.

But why do some girls gamble on not being hit back, cos some men are mental and will strike back.

Question is, what would you advice your sons, brothers etc. if a woman hit them?

Nabeela wrote:the wife started beating the shit out of the husband and chase him around the house with a dacas lol (it was a funny scene)

Somalida dhib badana That scene wouldnt look out of place in comedy series.

Hyperactive,


Come on Inadeer You grew up in Carabta. Maad runta iska sheegtid, You will karbash Her till She turns blue


For Me, naw not really. Unless maybe she pulled a knife or something I'd grab Her take it out of Her hands

She only did that 'cos they had company and he refrained for the same reason
Damn right I'd hit her if she behaved like that.

No i would never hurt a woman ,i hate men who do that , naagtu xita haday ka dhiibto wala suba salaxa lama diilo.

Nabeela wrote: Recently I was at close qarabo's house, when a sudden fight broke out between the husband and the wife. It started with harmless yelling but it slowly turned into physical, the wife started beating the shit out of the husband and chase him around the house with a dacas lol (it was a funny scene) The husband simply walked away when he realized xaalata inaay xun tahay, even though she was hitting him, he never laid a hand on her, gacan baa u tagay.

I bet you he would have beaten the shit outta of her if you weren't there.

Beenaale_No1 wrote:My pride wouldn't allow me to hit back.

Also, if I hit her back I will cause more damage to her than she caused to me when she hit me first.

But why do some girls gamble on not being hit back, cos some men are mental and will strike back.

Question is, what would you advice your sons, brothers etc. if a woman hit them?

I would advice them to never touch a woman, even if she goes after them with a knife seriously though, it's a no, no.

I have never seen or heard of a Somali woman being violent to her man. Its usually the Caribbeans and African Americans who do that shit.

Africanta iyo carabta nimankooda edeb daro noocas oo kaley dhiigosa kuma jiro.

DANGIRL wrote:

Nabeela wrote: Recently I was at close qarabo's house, when a sudden fight broke out between the husband and the wife. It started with harmless yelling but it slowly turned into physical, the wife started beating the shit out of the husband and chase him around the house with a dacas lol (it was a funny scene) The husband simply walked away when he realized xaalata inaay xun tahay, even though she was hitting him, he never laid a hand on her, gacan baa u tagay.

I bet you he would have beaten the shit outta of her if you weren't there.

Waa laga yabaa, Allahu aalam.

I think I would of gave her some good slaps if she did that to tell you the truth, and then I would of divorced her ass. She has the balls to try to hit me but she also does it infront of others to shame me, walle nin ma ihi if I stayed with her.

Some girl at school actually hits me in my arms and shit, so what do I hit her back and then she always gets emotional about guys shouldn't hit girls, fuck that. I always let her go when she gets on the verge of crying because of her emotoins, now runti everytime she wants to meet up or something I make up some excuse.

But Nabeela you should of stopped it, that shit is too painful to watch.

Never.

Simple as that. Beating a woman is pathetic, weak and makes you look stupid.

Beenaale_No1 wrote:I have never seen or heard of a Somali woman being violent to her man. Its usually the Caribbeans and African Americans who do that shit.

Africanta iyo carabta nimankooda edeb daro noocas oo kaley dhiigosa kuma jiro.

Not true this is an epidemic with our people, more so in Europe than in North America. But it happens.