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One young Saudi told the diplomat that big parties were a recent trend. Even a few years ago, he said, the only weekend activity was "dating" among small groups who met inside the homes of the rich. Some of the more opulent houses in Jeddah feature basement bars, discos and clubs. One high-society Saudi said: "The increased conservatism of our society over these past years has only moved social interaction to the inside of people's homes."

union wrote:What people do behind close doors is their business. I remember reading a hadith that said God will punish those who committed sin openly in public, and those who committed sin in private in private.

Ismahan123 wrote:

union wrote:What people do behind close doors is their business. I remember reading a hadith that said God will punish those who committed sin openly in public, and those who committed sin in private in private.

Care to share that hadith please? THanks.

The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said: "My entire nation is safe, except al-Mujahirin (those who boast of their sins). Among the Mujaharah is that a man commits an (evil) act, and wakes up in the morning while Allah has kept his (sin) a secret, he says: "O so- and-so! Last night I did this and that." He goes to sleep while Allah has kept his (sin) a secret but he wakes up in the morning and uncovers what Allah has kept a secret!" [Saheeh al-Bukhari]

Abdullah Ibn Masoud (May allah be pleased with him) related, A man came to the Prophet and said: O Messenger of Allah! I have mingled with a woman in the far side of al-Medina, and I fulfilled my desire short of actually having sexual intercourse with her. So, here am I, judge me according to what you decide. Umar Ibn al-Khattab (May allah be pleased with him) then said: `Allah had kept your secret, why did not you keep your secret ?' [Sharh Muslim]

Similarly, if one becomes aware of somebody elses sin, he should keep it a secret. Allahs Messenger (peace be upon him) said: "He, who relieves a hardship of this Dunya (world) for a believer, Allah will relieve (from him) a hardship of the Day of Resurrection; he who makes easy an indebted person, Allah will make it easy for him in the Dunya and the Hereafter; he who covers a Muslim (meaning his mistakes and shortcomings) , Allah will cover him in the Dunya and the Hereafter " [Sahih Muslim]

ciyaal_warta wrote:it happens i have saudi frenz from jeda and they told me jeda is the paris of khaleej al3rab

union wrote:

Ismahan123 wrote:

union wrote:What people do behind close doors is their business. I remember reading a hadith that said God will punish those who committed sin openly in public, and those who committed sin in private in private.

Care to share that hadith please? THanks.

I can't find the exact hadith, but this is one similar to it.

From among the teachings of Allahs Messenger (peace be upon him) is to keep sins a secret matter. If someone commits a sinful act which is against the Commandments of Allah, or is against the moral character, or is such an act that may cause harm to ones honor, then he should keep it a secret and seek forgiveness from Allah in the darkness of night.

The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said: "My entire nation is safe, except al-Mujahirin (those who boast of their sins). Among the Mujaharah is that a man commits an (evil) act, and wakes up in the morning while Allah has kept his (sin) a secret, he says: "O so- and-so! Last night I did this and that." He goes to sleep while Allah has kept his (sin) a secret but he wakes up in the morning and uncovers what Allah has kept a secret!" [Saheeh al-Bukhari]

Abdullah Ibn Masoud (May allah be pleased with him) related, A man came to the Prophet and said: O Messenger of Allah! I have mingled with a woman in the far side of al-Medina, and I fulfilled my desire short of actually having sexual intercourse with her. So, here am I, judge me according to what you decide. Umar Ibn al-Khattab (May allah be pleased with him) then said: `Allah had kept your secret, why did not you keep your secret ?' [Sharh Muslim]

Similarly, if one becomes aware of somebody elses sin, he should keep it a secret. Allahs Messenger (peace be upon him) said: "He, who relieves a hardship of this Dunya (world) for a believer, Allah will relieve (from him) a hardship of the Day of Resurrection; he who makes easy an indebted person, Allah will make it easy for him in the Dunya and the Hereafter; he who covers a Muslim (meaning his mistakes and shortcomings) , Allah will cover him in the Dunya and the Hereafter " [Sahih Muslim]

Ismahan123 wrote:

ciyaal_warta wrote:it happens i have saudi frenz from jeda and they told me jeda is the paris of khaleej al3rab

wa lithalik lama 3indohom fursah lo tukuun 7ita 5 daqa'ee yaqrijun min el paris bita3hom ela dubai, we Uruba oo amerika ka innahom qariju min sijin....sax?

Alchemist wrote:

Ismahan123 wrote:

ciyaal_warta wrote:it happens i have saudi frenz from jeda and they told me jeda is the paris of khaleej al3rab

wa lithalik lama 3indohom fursah lo tukuun 7ita 5 daqa'ee yaqrijun min el paris bita3hom ela dubai, we Uruba oo amerika ka innahom qariju min sijin....sax?

You speak arabic

Horta i can speak and read arabic but i cant read the way you guys write by writing arabic with non arabic letters.

About the topic, this is nothing new. but like you said is way over exaggerated.