STRICTLY 4 MY N**

xoogSADE14 · Post by **xoogSADE14** » Thu Aug 18, 2005 10:08 pm

Guys i just noticed something about myself Shocked

i just realized that i do not stay in relationships long, after 2-3 months i just get bored with whoever i was with and just start looking for something new

walahi and i don't even do it on purpose its just like i loose the connection that i first have with whatever gurl am with when we first start going out Sad

maybe i don't like being tied down or maybe i'm just wired differently. anyways the reason why i posted this thread is because i wanted to know if any of you niggas in here have that same problem/blessing or whatever you might call it Confused

Gamadid. · Post by **Gamadid.** » Thu Aug 18, 2005 10:23 pm

What do you mean by strictly for my n**? Niggers?

xoogSADE14 · Post by **xoogSADE14** » Thu Aug 18, 2005 10:24 pm

yeah bro/sis thats what i mean Cool

Gamadid. · Post by **Gamadid.** » Thu Aug 18, 2005 10:27 pm

Xoogsade, Where you confused by my name? Gama'diid is the correct version which was unavailable to me when I registered. Do you need the meaning of Gama'diid as well?

xoogSADE14 · Post by **xoogSADE14** » Thu Aug 18, 2005 10:31 pm

^^ my bad bro

then maybe you can help me out here Smile

Axlaan · Post by **Axlaan** » Thu Aug 18, 2005 10:32 pm

xoog,
I have the same exact problem. No wonder I'm on my third husband in 5yrs. It's not just a guy/nigga thing.

Gamadiid,
Waa lagu saalamey.

xoogSADE14 · Post by **xoogSADE14** » Thu Aug 18, 2005 10:33 pm

and you like it like that axlaan Confused

Gamadid. · Post by **Gamadid.** » Thu Aug 18, 2005 11:02 pm

Xoogsade apology accepted bro. My advice to you is to think about a relationship only when you are ready to settle. My philososphy is, if you find a girl who loves you and you have no issues with her, marry her. If you don't want to get married, then your disinterest in them after every few months makes sense Laughing

You just want to go through the poor girls like they were nothing. If you have a sister, what would you like to see her do with her life? Settle with a decent guy right? You would feel hurt if she was hurt and be played with.

Axlaan.

Waa kaa qaadey salaanta abaayo Very Happy

Maal mahaan waa lagu waayey.

xoogSADE14 · Post by **xoogSADE14** » Thu Aug 18, 2005 11:08 pm

^^ very nice advice bro Cool

aniga laakinse kas umaan sameeyo taas its just that the spark dies and ain't no need in frontin and lying a gurl if i don't really feel her anymore so i just be real with them.

p.s. its just weird how much i want them at first then i just go through that ritual again and again and again Sad

but hey i guess we're just naughty by nature Embarassed

*Somali-chick* · Post by ***Somali-chick*** » Thu Aug 18, 2005 11:11 pm

[quote="Gamadid."]Xoogsade apology accepted bro. My advice to you is to think about a relationship only when you are ready to settle. My philososphy is, if you find a girl who loves you and you have no issues with her, marry her. If you don't want to get married, then your disinterest in them after every few months makes sense Laughing

You just want to go through the poor girls like they were nothing. If you have a sister, what would you like to see her do with her life? Settle with a decent guy right? You would feel hurt if she was hurt and be played with.
[/quote]

whoa man, cool advice dee

optimist_1 · Post by **optimist_1** » Thu Aug 18, 2005 11:20 pm

Do you watch too many romance movies or you read too many romance novels?I heard of this guy who married and divorced 14 times kinda had the same excuse like you.

What do you expect from a women?I like them beautifull and submissive Very Happy

and offourse some thinking power

xoogSADE14 · Post by **xoogSADE14** » Thu Aug 18, 2005 11:22 pm

^^ did you just answer yourself Confused

optimist_1 · Post by **optimist_1** » Thu Aug 18, 2005 11:24 pm

war tell me about your women is that so hard to understand.I forgot pressing enter twice

xoogSADE14 · Post by **xoogSADE14** » Thu Aug 18, 2005 11:35 pm

^^ not really i just want them to keep me interested Embarassed

Gamadid. · Post by **Gamadid.** » Thu Aug 18, 2005 11:36 pm

SomaliChick

How are you? Shouldn't you be sleeping right now? And btw, girls tend to act brides when there is a wedding event and they are invited. I saw you mention a friend of yours who is getting married, so don't busy your head with a fantasy wedding of your own before you get a groom of your own Smile

You have some growing up to do.

Xoogsade.

A man should set goals for himself and understand that he will never find the exact woman he is looking for. He will have to settle for less and be realistic, in that way, he won't be forced to abandon a good woman he has for another woman he will never have. No one is perfect.