Benefit of the doubt

Ladyyonelove · Post by **Ladyyonelove** » Thu Jan 06, 2011 10:00 pm

You know sometimes god puts you through things to test you and I guess this was one of those tests from god because honestly I gave him the benefit of the doubt and I guess I was blinded by the so called "oh baby am sorry I love you' phases that for him never gets old!., Alhamdullah this was a lesson learned its hard to let go of 3 years of sacrafising yourself and giving someone your all. Like I always am not mad at him it is what it is - good things happen to those who wait.

Ka darag · Post by **Ka darag** » Thu Jan 06, 2011 10:03 pm

I always give people the benefit of the doubt. Anywho inshaAllah things will get better

Ladyyonelove · Post by **Ladyyonelove** » Thu Jan 06, 2011 10:05 pm

Ofcourse my lady it will inshallah am not jus sad I wasted time on something that was soo predictive

Ka darag · Post by **Ka darag** » Thu Jan 06, 2011 10:07 pm

ToughGong · Post by **ToughGong** » Thu Jan 06, 2011 10:10 pm

Good things come to those who wait
But not to those who wait too late

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Post by **MujahidAishah** » Thu Jan 06, 2011 10:10 pm

Lady I'm sorry bout your broken heart walal but keep your chin up... He wasn't your calaaf maybe he wasn't good enough for you and illah has someone even better then him in store for you. When you find your calaaf trust me ull know he is the one and you won't need to wait for 3 yrs.

Aww here u go luv you to cheer you up

gemini_snake · Post by **gemini_snake** » Thu Jan 06, 2011 10:15 pm

didn't you say your parents didn't approve of him? so wasn't this supposed to be over long ago?

anyway, sometimes allah removes one thing from your life to replace it w/ something even better. when you say you were "sacrificing" for him it doesn't sound like you were in a healthy relationship to begin with so count your blessings that you didn't waste anymore time w/ that relationship. i would encourage you to stay away from "dating" or haram relationships in general. anything that starts off w/ haram will not end well. if you're looking to get married, seek out a mate using halaal methods.

Ladyyonelove · Post by **Ladyyonelove** » Fri Jan 07, 2011 2:32 pm

Thank you asiah I know everything is getting better I don't mind it I just hated the fact that I spent most of my time but its a lesson learned nooh lol

Gemini I know I shouldn't have been in an unxaalal relationship we were both looking for marriage and whatnot laakin it wasn't written for me nooh

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