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Interracial relationships

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goodness people will use any means to justify hatred. There is always a way to disprove their integrity in their argument for such. Rolling Eyes

Tonight I was watching something and it started this spark on racist. they were talking about white and black relationships. and how its wrong...... but I think that if you are in love, what does it matter what color your skin is, or for that matter what tribe you belong to-- Laughing

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Post by aamina_00 »

as you said that is your personal opinion, i am not racist, and i hate no one based on their color, features, or anything else, but i would neither encourage interracial marriage nor advise anyone to enter interracial relationship any type or form. when someone speaks the same language, come from the same culture,then there is more than love that connects you to that person. more and more interracial marriages end up in divorce, because its members believed that love is enough to guarantee happiness, and then they find themselves that they have to explain everything that they do to their partner. imagine that you're married to western man, do you think that he will undertsand that sometimes you have to send money to your 7th cousin that you've never seen and do not know. or that when your parents get old they will come and live with you not in a nursing home. but somali man will understand and you do not have to explain, plus if you marry non-somali your children will not look like somali. i am sorry but i feel sorry for any somali who is in interracial relationship, i would say get out of it,before it is too late.
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Post by Axlaan »

Aamina,
What is so freaking great about being a Somali? Why would you send a 7th cousin whom you've never a total stranger, your hard earn money? Haven't they heard of JOB in baadiye or wherever the hell they are at. Rolling Eyes We're bunch of bastards who're arrogant in ignorance, nothing more, nothing less. Let's not kid ourselves; Somalis are no better than stray dog nowadays. Marry whomever your pu$$y/d!ck desires. End of story.
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Post by gurey25 »

Laughing Laughing
Axlaan how interesting.

anyway i believe interracial relationships are making things more difficult than they already are.
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If it aint white, it aint right! Very Happy
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iam racist to white pple so wht
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^^i don't like niggers. Very Happy
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Post by gurey25 »

Why not ?
check em out maybe youlle like em.
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Post by Samatr »

[quote="gurey25"]Why not ?
check em out maybe youlle like em.[/quote]

Guray you like cadaan girls, its not that bad. You have to try all flavours thats what I say.
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I'm not as blind like the old guy in Samatar's avator, but I'm definately colour blind.

Lionheart, what do you mean? Do you mean the end product is the same? Laughing
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Post by 1nemansquad »

aamina, i wish all xalimo's was smart as you as well as Axlaan Laughing

as for me bout interracial relationships, like i said alot times before as this topic was posted over and over again by sooo many retarded forumers

'if it ain't somali then it don't feel right'

war maa wadeenaa
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Post by michael_ital »

If one is going to enter into an interracial relationship, it can't just be done blindly. It CAN work, make no mistake. But both parties REALLY need to be culturally aware of the other. aamina brings up some good scenarios. Using Somali as an example, a white person needs to be familiar with them and how they roll. A 3AM phone call from back home or Europe is something that needs to accepted as not out of the ordinary. Just as are dumb ass questions from the white persons family. It's all about tolerance and the ability to learn from each other. Axlaan nailed it though.
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"What we really need to overcome our race probloems is a voluntary program of racial deconstruction. Basically everyone has to fock everyone else until we're all the same color."
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Post by 1nemansquad »

Michael, lemme ask you a question, knowin that gona lie neway

are you truthfully a muslim? if yes, do you follow tha islamic shari'a on daily basis?

somehow i strongly belief that you are mendacious scumbag, serioulsy i ain't sayin this just to harass your sorry ass

i just think you is one deceitful motherfocker and your here for awhole like chalk and cheese intention

your not muslim convert
your not engrossed in islam

in any case be true to your self like tha otha gaalo's on this site and stop kissin ass for fock sake, nacala wasaq

don't take this as an insult, just 1nemansquad bein him self, i say it as i see it and i'm a fockin good judge of character Cool
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Post by Hambalayo2 »

As well as being in an interracial relationship, I am a product of one, and I don't see such a massive problem with it. I would know, since I lived it all my life. people who arent biracial, or who have never dated or married outside of their races can't exactly condemn such relationships, they have no experience and some are blinded by hate and racism. i understand what aamina is trying to say, of course there are some things that a western man would never understand, and things may be easier with a Somali, but when you love someone enough, you become colour blind and are willing to sacrifice and work through all the cultural and social differences. and besides, if you are both Muslim, culture shouldn't be a ruling issue. love of Allah conquers all.
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