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Need a new wife.

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I wanna know Is it hard in the somali community to find young fresh never married wife if your a divorcee with a kid, but still under 25. Would they judge you on that?
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If you were white, asian or black it wouldn't be difficult but if your Somali it'a almost impossible but good luck
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Why not look for a single mother with children like you?

I think such individuals will understand each others challenges better than a young girl who has little experience in raising a family.

Besides, there are many somali sisters who have been left with the burden of raising children on their own.

So the point here is, in the somali community we have many sisters that are single mothers. It would be a gentelment of you to seek such sisters as the prophet (saw) did marrying the widows of those fallen in battle to look after them.
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Somaliman, may I ask you a question?

Is it difficult being a father or is it a simple task.

I always thought about getting a surrogate mother deliver my child.

Tell me about fatherhood without the presence of the mother. I want a kid but I dont want a wife or mother for the child
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Talo alle udaa wrote:Why not look for a single mother with children like you?

I think such individuals will understand each others challenges better than a young girl who has little experience in raising a family.

Besides, there are many somali sisters who have been left with the burden of raising children on their own.

So the point here is, in the somali community we have many sisters that are single mothers. It would be a gentelment of you to seek such sisters as the prophet (saw) did marrying the widows of those fallen in battle to look after them.

Well said :up:
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Talo alle udaa wrote:Why not look for a single mother with children like you?

I think such individuals will understand each others challenges better than a young girl who has little experience in raising a family.

Besides, there are many somali sisters who have been left with the burden of raising children on their own.

So the point here is, in the somali community we have many sisters that are single mothers. It would be a gentelment of you to seek such sisters as the prophet (saw) did marrying the widows of those fallen in battle to look after them.

Haram,

Muslim Women Cannot re-marry. :lol:
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RuralMan08 wrote:Somaliman, may I ask you a question?

Is it difficult being a father or is it a simple task.

I always thought about getting a surrogate mother deliver my child.

Tell me about fatherhood without the presence of the mother. I want a kid but I dont want a wife or mother for the child
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Somaliman% wrote:I wanna know Is it hard in the somali community to find young fresh never married wife if your a divorcee with a kid, but still under 25. Would they judge you on that?


Well, u dont want a single mother, So would they be interested in single father? its both ways u know.
And they know your first child will always come first and u will always have a special bonded with ur ex wife, even if u dont think so. So they might as well save themselve the trouble and marry 'YOUNG FRESH, NEVER MARRIED MAN'.
Good luck though.
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Scarletmoon1 wrote:
Talo alle udaa wrote:Why not look for a single mother with children like you?

I think such individuals will understand each others challenges better than a young girl who has little experience in raising a family.

Besides, there are many somali sisters who have been left with the burden of raising children on their own.

So the point here is, in the somali community we have many sisters that are single mothers. It would be a gentelment of you to seek such sisters as the prophet (saw) did marrying the widows of those fallen in battle to look after them.

Haram,

Muslim Women Cannot re-marry. :lol:

:lol: :lol: who da heck said that??
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Talo alle udaa wrote:Why not look for a single mother with children like you?

I think such individuals will understand each others challenges better than a young girl who has little experience in raising a family.

Besides, there are many somali sisters who have been left with the burden of raising children on their own.

So the point here is, in the somali community we have many sisters that are single mothers. It would be a gentelment of you to seek such sisters as the prophet (saw) did marrying the widows of those fallen in battle to look after them.
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LOOL i would never consider marrying a single mother. NO way. am not a Farax with seven kids... am under 25, barely married for a year.

I would pursue a young fresh wife lol maybe the secret is dont tell her you have a kid, at first :lol: :lol:
RuralMan08 wrote:Somaliman, may I ask you a question?

Is it difficult being a father or is it a simple task.

I always thought about getting a surrogate mother deliver my child.

Tell me about fatherhood without the presence of the mother. I want a kid but I dont want a wife or mother for the child
Its not easy but it isnt hard either. When you have a child that is your own flesh and blood, nothing would trouble you. You would go to any limits to provide for them. Its also fun and exciting to see them grow. In terms of bringing the child up without a mother. You would need a nanny or something otherwise how would you work while at the same time looking after a new born child until they reach school age... Unless your not gonna work etc

So in your case its hard however you would have to have lots of money for a surrogate.
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you're single father, so get a single mother who is under 25. why fresh one, when your self is not fresh? selfish sana kani :lol:
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hyperactive wrote:you're single father, so get a single mother who is under 25. why fresh one, when your self is not fresh? selfish sana kani :lol:

hahah

alaa good old hyper
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hyperactive wrote:you're single father, so get a single mother who is under 25. why fresh one, when your self is not fresh? selfish sana kani :lol:
No man is fresh... You aint either.
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hyperactive wrote:you're single father, so get a single mother who is under 25. why fresh one, when your self is not fresh? selfish sana kani :lol:

Midkaan wants to have his cake and eat it too, very unrealistic, it's highly unlikely he will find a young girl who's under 25 and willing to marry a divorcee with a kid, each to his own, if you have a kid why not marry a girl who has one kid and who's been married before, whats the biggie, like I said very unrealistic goals.
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