Adventure vs Stability

BlackVelvet · Post by **BlackVelvet** » Mon May 30, 2011 2:17 pm

How many countries have you lived in? Would you want more, the same or less for your children?

Hyperactive · Post by **Hyperactive** » Mon May 30, 2011 2:18 pm

BlackVelvet wrote:How many countries have you lived in? Would you want more, the same or less for your children?

advanture is good when you single and young. but after yopu marry have family i guess stability what you need.

LobsterUnit · Post by **LobsterUnit** » Mon May 30, 2011 2:19 pm

countries kulaha, i've lived in the same house for over 16years.

BlackVelvet · Post by **BlackVelvet** » Mon May 30, 2011 2:23 pm

hyperactive wrote:
BlackVelvet wrote:How many countries have you lived in? Would you want more, the same or less for your children?
advanture is good when you single and young. but after yopu marry have family i guess stability what you need.

Yes but what if it isn't just an adventure? What if you get a good opportunity in another country?

GaajoUnit wrote: countries kulaha, i've lived in the same house for over 16years.

Wow. Ever thought of just packing up and leaving?

LobsterUnit · Post by **LobsterUnit** » Mon May 30, 2011 2:25 pm

^^ Not really. I was a child/teenager most of the time dee.

BlackVelvet · Post by **BlackVelvet** » Mon May 30, 2011 2:28 pm

Do you think you'll ever move to another country?

Hyperactive · Post by **Hyperactive** » Mon May 30, 2011 2:29 pm

lol bv, im a somali and my parent came here cause they saw opportunity, so i guess i would do the same.

gaajo, u're like me, i live this house since i was 7 months old.lol

i tried to get school far away , found all the good excuses but i couldnt cause of financial reasons.

Leila25 · Post by **Leila25** » Mon May 30, 2011 2:29 pm

Four countries. It is enriching, challenging and i love change, only money is restricting me or I would have left UK long time ago, inshallah i will one day.

BlackVelvet · Post by **BlackVelvet** » Mon May 30, 2011 2:37 pm

Leila25 wrote:Four countries. It is enriching, challenging and i love change, only money is restricting me or I would have left UK long time ago, inshallah i will one day.

I know what you mean, lakin don't you feel like you'd be taking away the "stable home" part of your children's childhood?

Leila25 · Post by **Leila25** » Mon May 30, 2011 2:54 pm

BlackVelvet wrote:I know what you mean, lakin don't you feel like you'd be taking away the "stable home" part of your children's childhood?

No, i have fond memories of every house and area i have lived in. My childhood was stable. Children adapt well to change, i want them to see alternative lifestyle to the one in Europe, learn a new language etc, it will make them more rounded i believe.

Post by **FAH1223** » Mon May 30, 2011 3:02 pm

BV wants to leave the UK, it would be a good move out of that overcrowded island

*Nobleman* · Post by ***Nobleman*** » Mon May 30, 2011 3:47 pm

Came to the UK when I was 2 years old, lived in the same house since 1993, apart from a year or two I lived with my brother. Honestly cant see myself living anywhere but London, I get home sick after a couple of months, maybe Hargeisa though.

BlackVelvet · Post by **BlackVelvet** » Mon May 30, 2011 4:59 pm

Noble, ever considered moving to Manchester? I've been there it's not bad

Leila25 wrote:
BlackVelvet wrote:I know what you mean, lakin don't you feel like you'd be taking away the "stable home" part of your children's childhood?
No, i have fond memories of every house and area i have lived in. My childhood was stable. Children adapt well to change, i want them to see alternative lifestyle to the one in Europe, learn a new language etc, it will make them more rounded i believe.

Those are the pros. You only live once and dhulka Ilaahey wo weynyahay

BlackVelvet · Post by **BlackVelvet** » Mon May 30, 2011 5:00 pm

FAH1223 wrote:BV wants to leave the UK, it would be a good move out of that overcrowded island

The concern is that I will never not want to leave.

KingMJ · Post by **KingMJ** » Mon May 30, 2011 5:02 pm

Well I thought if I ever move for work-related reasons, it was common and most people leave the wife and kids at home

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