The wife

[Rapidwolverine]

Will the relationship with the wife is going pear shaped. Marriage is a very tolling process. I work hard all day at work come home tired and it feels like I am at work at home. The wife does nothing just sits on her FAT ARSE all day.
I'm starting to get sick of her face. Each day she doesn't change I begin to lose respect for her and don't want to see her untill she changes on her own accord.

What should I do? I don't want to force her to change also she is a very hard headed person(i.e. stupid) so thinks with her heart rather than brain so things get heated very easily. I see no point in arguing with a foolish person. But I need my wife to be a wife!!! What should I do people. I awai your responses experts didn't reply to my other comments. So now I made a topic. I wait.

[Methylamine]

Do you have kids? If not, #ontothenextone

[Rapidwolverine]

No kids but we only got married last summer. We were so compabitle the chemistry was there every fit I chased her a lot wasted a lot of money. I will not give up on this. I have never quit on anything in life and I shall not start now.

[Rapidwolverine]

She's even let herself go. She used to go to gym before we got married and always went on diets and didn't order much at restaurants now she is balloning and is so lazy doesn't go to the gym. Her body is untoned all she does is sit at home on the laptop on forums, social networking god knows what. Thats another worry her interacting on forums who knows who she talks to?!?!!?!?!?!?

[gemini_snake]

^ you're on a forum yourself, so what does that say about you? your 'stupid' and 'foolish' wife deserves better than some loser who insults her on a forum. i hope she takes you for everything you've got.

[Rapidwolverine]

I'm sorry I take back those rude things I said about her. I love my wife but she is very frustrating! I was angry I said things out of that alone.
Anyway yes I am on a forum but not daily and I have a purpose. She sits on the couch all day doing god knows what on forums. I am seriously thinking of banning her on the internet she could be interacting with men!

PS. Yes she takes me for what she's got because I am a hard working indivdual who accepts all her faults and never abuses her over them in anyway shape or form.

[Rapidwolverine]

PPS. Its good to have a female opinion very welcome. I have no one to vent my frustration and tell my story too as its very personal and I don't share our problems in the real word. Cyber advice will be very very beneficial to me so I can find a way to solve her many issues and how I can change them for the better of our marriage.

[Rapidwolverine]

Where are the experts?????

[HELWAA]

miskiin, talow ninkan xagu ku danbeyey

[Nanees]

i wonder what happened? most newlyweds I know gain massive weight in the first year