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The worst places in the world for women: Somalia

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Fatima Osman Bulle lives in an internally displaced ppeople's camp in Mogadishu. Her makeshift house consists of cloths and sticks and has no running water, electricity or toilet. She and her husband, seven children and three relatives are crammed into one room.

"I feel that I am a low-class member of the family," Bulle says. "I am the most disrespected person in the home."

The 35-year-old has been sexually harassed, tortured and abducted by people she worked for in the past . She now earns $40 (£24) a month as a housemaid and cook.

"I started working as housemaid when I was eight, I was married by force when I was 13 and I am a victim of domestic violence since then," she says.

"The abuses start from early childhood. I was circumcised when I was five. It is a lifetime wound that I live with all the time. I experienced child labour and forced marriage and I never went into a class."

She cannot read or write and her children have been denied access to education. Their future is "dark", she says.

Domestic violence, constant fear of rape, lack of healthcare and basic needs and cultural inferiority are the reality for women in Somalia. They have no voice and little respect.

Fadumo Isaak Ahmed, 30, a mother of five, typifies the destitution and suffering of the women and children in her neighbourhood.

"I work and wash clothes for the families," she says. "I have no regular job. I look for my luck, but the amount I can generate can be one dollar or less.

"Three of my children go begging. They are street beggars. If they get some money, we can use it as the fuel of the hurricane lamp. If they don't get any, we sleep in the dark."

Ahmed has also experienced female genital mutilation, early marriage and child labour. She whispers: "My husband beats me when I don't get a job because he stays in the house and thinks that I am his slave. If I left him, I would have no place to go, so I am a life slave.

"It is the circumstances and the culture of the country that made me such a low-class person."

Ahmed grew up as an orphan and was forced to marry a cousin when she was 14. "He died when I got two children, and I was forced to marry his younger brother who is my husband now. He beats me all the time," she says.

"A man raped me when I was 13, and I was victimised by rapists two other times when my husband was absent."

She is worried about the future of her three daughters, who have no hope of going to school.

Violence against women in Somalia is the highest in Africa, according Mogadishu's Somali Women Development Centre, which provides support to victims.

Nadia Sufi Abdi, the centre's human rights documentation officer, describes the country as "a woman's hell on earth."

She says: "No woman in Somalia is happy to be a woman because, from the cradle to the grave, woman is a victim.

"The domestic violence, the raping, killing and kidnapping of women is part of the daily life, and there is no authority standing to stop this."

http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/2011/ju ... en-somalia
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BS. Am 100% sure there are worser place than Somalia for a women to live than the blessed land of the noble Somalis.
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shytt happens everywhere...when it comes women freedom arab countries are worse..atleast some women in soomaaliya drive their cars and go to job
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waryaa wrote:Image
:lol: :lol:

Anyway its basically lies to get into the west. I remember when women used to come to my dads community asking for help in filling in forms they were all lying and saying they were raped by 10 men are house slaves, arranged marriage all sorts of exaggerated lies. The most desperate ones mention circumcision and whatever these ones are saying about slavery. Somalis are professional pathological liars
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KingMJ wrote:
waryaa wrote:Image
:lol: :lol:

Anyway its basically lies to get into the west. I remember when women used to come to my dads community asking for help in filling in forms they were all lying and saying they were raped by 10 men are house slaves, arranged marriage all sorts of exaggerated lies. The most desperate ones mention circumcision and whatever these ones are saying about slavery. Somalis are professional pathological liars
The sad truth about that is all those things took place and much worse, but obviously people will always use the real pain of others.

the worse thing i heard is Pakistanis claiming to be homosexuals that are persecuted in their countries. :down:
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waryaa wrote:Image
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
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Those kids aren't Somali

waryaa wrote:Image
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waryaa wrote:Image

:lol:
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[quote="Megatron"]Those kids aren't Somali


[quote="waryaa"][img]http://media.intellipoker.com/blog/wp-c ... s_shit.jpg[/img][/quote]

:lol:[/quote]


Carlo,

Aren't you becoming expert in Somalis and how they look? Somalis come in more shapes, shades and forms than India waryaa :lol: :lol: :lol:
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Abdi

I'm a certified expert, and have beeen for years. :lol:
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From a humanitarian aspect sure Somali Women have it the toughest because of Somalia's horrible condition. However in "freedom" etc. and mistreatment of Women well I guess You haven't met Arabs.
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Re: The worst places in the world for women: Somalia

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That woman is a somali bantu, in bantu culture woman are treated like that, but not the average somali woman.

Bantu are different and not even proper somali.
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Re: The worst places in the world for women: Somalia

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WTF there is no cruelty to somali women back home...somalia does not even come in top 50 in the world....... life is hard everywhere ...rape in somalia is unheard...
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I find most of the replies in this thread more disturbing than the actual article in itself. We even have one numskull going so far as to deny rapes & sexual violence in Somalia all together like he's a book-keeper of sorts. We've managed to fuck up our country, raze it to the ground, dig up galvanized water pipes, rip down electrical wirings, smelt statues of our historical heros for scrap metal and we are as usual somehow, someway hollier than all the other societies out there by not raping our women. We are such a wholesome society where women are rarely if any are mistreated, where minorities are kings and rapes & pedophilia is unheard of, miyaa? GTFOH with that delusional shit. :arrow:
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