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My mother is obsessed with me!
Posted: Mon Jun 20, 2011 6:12 pm
by OliveOil
Sometimes I feel like I'm not 'perfect' enough for my mother. she literally tries to doll me up all the time. She tells me to wear high heels instead of flats, she tells me to do my hair a certain way when going somewhere instead of the way I want, she tells me to dress a certain way, wear my scarf a certain way, she says that I should walk like this and not like that, she loves it when I'm driving a beautiful car...and if anything happens to the car, she suddendly hates it until my next car, she calls me every second if I'm still out by 12am, she wants me to be girly girly...and hates when I bring out my tom boying side (which I have), she reminds me to exfoliate my face (haha which I sometimes forget), she gets really mad at me when I don't take care of my hair. The password to our Alarm system is my name (she picked). Funny thing is, she is NOT like this with my other sisters!!!!!!!! What gives??? Wallee my mother is really really obsessed with me

Re: My mother is obsessed with me!
Posted: Mon Jun 20, 2011 6:15 pm
by OliveOil
But I LOVE her nevertheless!!
Just wanted to vent cause I'm really mad about it nooh

Re: My mother is obsessed with me!
Posted: Mon Jun 20, 2011 6:16 pm
by XimanJaale
Afcourse, she is planning to give you to me. I had to tell, u sounded paranoid.

Re: My mother is obsessed with me!
Posted: Mon Jun 20, 2011 6:16 pm
by OliveOil
I sound paranoid? How so? lol
Re: My mother is obsessed with me!
Posted: Mon Jun 20, 2011 6:16 pm
by Lord Diplock
OliveOil wrote:But I LOVE her nevertheless!!
Just wanted to vent cause I'm really mad about it nooh

Lucky you, you have a nice mother

Re: My mother is obsessed with me!
Posted: Mon Jun 20, 2011 6:17 pm
by Advo
OliveOil wrote:The password to our Alarm system is my name (she picked).
On a serious note, Yh she seems a bit obsessed, but how do you feel about it?
Re: My mother is obsessed with me!
Posted: Mon Jun 20, 2011 6:17 pm
by OliveOil
She is very nice...but most of the time...its HER WAY and NOT mine, which irritates me cause I'm freaking 24 years old

Re: My mother is obsessed with me!
Posted: Mon Jun 20, 2011 6:20 pm
by Siciid85
Are you the youngest out of all your siblings? if so it's makes sense her being obsessed with you and not your older siblings. As most mothers feel they have more mothering & love to give to their youngest children even though they might be 20+.
Re: My mother is obsessed with me!
Posted: Mon Jun 20, 2011 6:20 pm
by XimanJaale
OliveOil wrote:I sound paranoid? How so? lol
cause u seem confused. Are u the eldest daughter? That might change my mind on this situation. Dr. Ximan is here for you.
Re: My mother is obsessed with me!
Posted: Mon Jun 20, 2011 6:20 pm
by OliveOil
Advo wrote:OliveOil wrote:The password to our Alarm system is my name (she picked).
On a serious note, Yh she seems a bit obsessed, but how do you feel about it?
Thats if you ever come to Cbus
But anyway...I feel bad for my siblings because I get more attention from mom and dad than they do...I get awkward about it sometimes cause I don't know what to say. And my father always talks about how proud he is of me....N I'm here thinking "I'm not perfect aabo!"

Re: My mother is obsessed with me!
Posted: Mon Jun 20, 2011 6:21 pm
by The_Patriot
OliveOil wrote:She is very nice...but most of the time...its HER WAY and NOT mine, which irritates me cause I'm freaking 24 years old

thanks for the confession your share price has dropped drastically

Re: My mother is obsessed with me!
Posted: Mon Jun 20, 2011 6:21 pm
by OliveOil
Siciid85 wrote:Are you the youngest out of all your siblings? if so it's makes sense her being obsessed with you and not your older siblings. As most mothers feel they have more mothering & love to give to their youngest children even though they might be 20+.
Maya Curada baan ahay

Re: My mother is obsessed with me!
Posted: Mon Jun 20, 2011 6:23 pm
by OliveOil
XimanJaale wrote:OliveOil wrote:I sound paranoid? How so? lol
cause u seem confused. Are u the eldest daughter? That might change my mind on this situation. Dr. Ximan is here for you.
lol war kir iyo kut!!! I'm the eldest of all my siblings....and I feel like its time that my parents let go of me...I don't need their attention any more...the younger ones do. Sometimes, markii wax la sameenaayo ama wax la keeno...my siblings do not conflict with me about it because they know that I will always get the first choice....they know my parents (especially my mother) will consider me first...so they don't even try at all

Re: My mother is obsessed with me!
Posted: Mon Jun 20, 2011 6:25 pm
by OliveOil
The_Patriot wrote:OliveOil wrote:She is very nice...but most of the time...its HER WAY and NOT mine, which irritates me cause I'm freaking 24 years old

thanks for the confession your share price has dropped drastically

What price? lol what are you talking about??

Re: My mother is obsessed with me!
Posted: Mon Jun 20, 2011 6:27 pm
by The_Patriot
I will tell you the truth no body will want to marry you unless he is willing to accept the consequences or take you more than @ least 1000 miles from your mom
