Question: How do you catch girls and boys for marriage?

haxxor · Post by **haxxor** » Sat Jul 09, 2011 2:22 pm

Of course, western way is to party. That's haraam.

So, in Islamic way, how does we do it?

For example, I was in Eid party, saw a hot girl, what should I do to make it halaal?

Alphanumeric · Post by **Alphanumeric** » Sat Jul 09, 2011 2:25 pm

With a rather large net.

And what is the difference between an "Eid party", where there is mixing, and regular "Western party"?

But to answer your question, only entirely "halaal" way is to go through family. In the end, it's all pointless.

HELWAA · Post by **HELWAA** » Sat Jul 09, 2011 2:28 pm

- Your family fix a girl for you
- you befriend someone who knows the girl in that way you find out all info about her, incase she is undercover H and they can give you her phonenr bacdeen you do the rest.
- You meet them in public places like library, mall and just stalk them

- internet, but test them very hard, play a diffrent rolls to get down to her true colours.

haxxor · Post by **haxxor** » Sat Jul 09, 2011 2:33 pm

Alphanumeric wrote:With a rather large net.

And what is the difference between an "Eid party", where there is mixing, and regular "Western party"?

But to answer your question, only entirely "halaal" way is to go through family. In the end, it's all pointless.

I don't like an idea of going through my family, I think all families girl my family have met is either ugly or have bad personalities.

HELWAA wrote:- Your family fix a girl for you
- you befriend someone who knows the girl in that way you find out all info about her, incase she is undercover H and they can give you her phonenr bacdeen you do the rest.
- You meet them in public places like library, mall and just stalk them
- internet, but test them very hard, play a diffrent rolls to get down to her true colours.

#2 and #3 are very creepy, I don't think I will be doing it, and #4 is relatively creepy and it's not possible to test her fully.

As for #1 I'll take it as last resort.

Would girls like boys who are about 4 years younger?

BlackVelvet · Post by **BlackVelvet** » Sat Jul 09, 2011 2:34 pm

HELWAA wrote:- Your family fix a girl for you
- you befriend someone who knows the girl in that way you find out all info about her, incase she is undercover H and they can give you her phonenr bacdeen you do the rest.
- You meet them in public places like library, mall and just stalk them
- internet, but test them very hard, play a diffrent rolls to get down to her true colours.

Funny suggestions lakin that one takes the cake.

BlackVelvet · Post by **BlackVelvet** » Sat Jul 09, 2011 2:35 pm

Haxxor 4 years younger might be illegal for her. How old are you?

That said, seems like it's a specific girl so suck it up and go talk to her.

Alphanumeric · Post by **Alphanumeric** » Sat Jul 09, 2011 2:36 pm

haxxor wrote:
Alphanumeric wrote:With a rather large net.

And what is the difference between an "Eid party", where there is mixing, and regular "Western party"?

But to answer your question, only entirely "halaal" way is to go through family. In the end, it's all pointless.
I don't like an idea of going through my family, I think all families girl my family have met is either ugly or have bad personalities.

If you want to do it the halaal way, this is the only option. That, or arranged.

Post by **FAH1223** » Sat Jul 09, 2011 2:39 pm

Who the hell looks for a wife in the club?

haxxor · Post by **haxxor** » Sat Jul 09, 2011 2:41 pm

BlackVelvet wrote:Haxxor 4 years younger might be illegal for her. How old are you?

That said, seems like it's a specific girl so suck it up and go talk to her.

There's no girl I am aiming to get at moment, I merely asked anyone if they knows the halaal way to get a girl.

No, not illegal, I know the law, but would a girl like it?

Alphanumeric wrote:
haxxor wrote:
Alphanumeric wrote:With a rather large net.

And what is the difference between an "Eid party", where there is mixing, and regular "Western party"?

But to answer your question, only entirely "halaal" way is to go through family. In the end, it's all pointless.
I don't like an idea of going through my family, I think all families girl my family have met is either ugly or have bad personalities.
If you want to do it the halaal way, this is the only option. That, or arranged.

Going through the family is same as arranged marriage, isn't it?

FAH1223 wrote:Who the hell looks for a wife in the club?

The westerners.

HELWAA · Post by **HELWAA** » Sat Jul 09, 2011 2:41 pm

Naaya Bv i did't mean what you assumed ..

Haxor

Girls dont like younger men.

Alphanumeric · Post by **Alphanumeric** » Sat Jul 09, 2011 2:43 pm

Going through the family is same as arranged marriage, isn't it?

Arranged = removing options, and agreeing to marry whoever they bring. Going through family allows you to sit and talk for some time with whoever they bring, moving on from a person if you find you'll be incompatible.

Enlightened~Sista · Post by **Enlightened~Sista** » Sat Jul 09, 2011 2:46 pm

Go and talk to her hadaad ka heshay.

haxxor · Post by **haxxor** » Sat Jul 09, 2011 2:51 pm

Enlightened~Sista wrote:Go and talk to her hadaad ka heshay.

What? I can't speak af-somali... sorry

BlackVelvet · Post by **BlackVelvet** » Sat Jul 09, 2011 2:52 pm

Helwaa waa iska caadi, haye how many nicks you got marka?

haxxor wrote:
Enlightened~Sista wrote:Go and talk to her hadaad ka heshay.
What? I can't speak af-somali... sorry

Bloody troll

haxxor · Post by **haxxor** » Sat Jul 09, 2011 2:59 pm

BlackVelvet wrote:
haxxor wrote:
Enlightened~Sista wrote:Go and talk to her hadaad ka heshay.
What? I can't speak af-somali... sorry
Bloody troll

Depending how do you define a troll, if you mean I can't speak af-somali, then I am not troll. I really do not speak somali, and this has mentioned hundred of thousand times in my earlier threads.

Sista, I think I get you, you meant I should talk her. Like I said, there's no girl I am planning to "get", I only asked if there is a halaal way to get girl other than arranged marriage and through family. Talking to her is halaal as long as it doesn't turn to flirtatious, or to point where you start lying about yourself.

Is dating haraam?

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