Guys, Lets becareful When In Polygamy

[caburiye1]

I have been married for 10yrs, My husband married another woman 7yrs ago in his country and that's where she lives and he only sees her every 2 to 3 yrs. He has told me so much about her about when he took her virginity what she did and told me she was better then me, a better mother. Im very hurt and over the yrs he told me that he just said that stuff and made lies just to teach me a lesson. I think he loves this woman more than me because she is fresh and he doesn't really see her much now he want's to bring her to america and his face just lights up when he talks about her and I feel like I should just leave and let him have her, the only reason I stay is because of our kids but hell he doesn't even take care of our kids I support them while he supports his other wife and 2 kids.

Im very hurt and don't know what to do,please help! He swears to me that he loves me but, I can tell that he is lying over the past year I have not slept in the same bed with him we barely kiss,talk or anything only if it halfs to do with work or bringing his wife and kids here, I told him I don't care if he brings her here but Im only doing it for him and not worrying about myself! I even have dreams when im sleeping about him and her having sex I guess this is due to him telling me things and now he says he made it up but I know he didn't make them up, what should I do?

I found this Question in Zawaj.com . I guess the sister and her husband are not from the same country and the sister might new to polygamy. She seem hurt. Lets not tell the wives about what we do with other wives.

[LobsterUnit]

Bal marka hore an tijabinow

[Beenaale_No1]

A lot of men, Somalis AND non-Somalis, are ruled by their f-king ego. They take on a 2nd wife when they can barely support the first, financially, emotionally, and physically.

My uncle married a 2nd wife and had 2 children with her, and he had 4 children with the 1st one. This nigga was so broke that he came to me with a shit sob story asking for money. I gave him £500 cos waa abti and I felt sorry for him but he really pissed me off.

[tightrope]

A lot of men, Somalis AND non-Somalis, are ruled by their f-king ego. They take on a 2nd wife when they can barely support the first, financially, emotionally, and physically.

My uncle married a 2nd wife and had 2 children with her, and he had 4 children with the 1st one. This nigga was so broke that he came to me with a shit sob story asking for money. I gave him £500 cos waa abti and I felt sorry for him but he really pissed me off.