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Guy topic. Beard or no beard

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I guess I can't say guy topic because girls might want their men to have beard, trim it or none at all. Anyways, I feel less of a man every time I shave my beard, and I hate it! When I say beard, I mean all the hair on the face. The chin as well as the sides, and even under the adam's apple :) . Now the reason I made this thread is because my job requires to be cut clean :evil: ! I am looking for other jobs, but there is little halal jobs here. Don't say quit because you ain't paying my pills. I guess if you don't say quit, there is no third option but just don't say it!
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uglybrother wrote:I guess I can't say guy topic because girls might want their men to have beard, trim it or none at all. Anyways, I feel less of a man every time I shave my beard, and I hate it! When I say beard, I mean all the hair on the face. The chin as well as the sides, and even under the adam's apple :) . Now the reason I made this thread is because my job requires to be cut clean :evil: ! I am looking for other jobs, but there is little halal jobs here. Don't say quit because you ain't paying my pills. I guess if you don't say quit, there is no third option but just don't say it!
What sort of medication do you take? Is it for something terminal?
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934 wrote:
uglybrother wrote:I guess I can't say guy topic because girls might want their men to have beard, trim it or none at all. Anyways, I feel less of a man every time I shave my beard, and I hate it! When I say beard, I mean all the hair on the face. The chin as well as the sides, and even under the adam's apple :) . Now the reason I made this thread is because my job requires to be cut clean :evil: ! I am looking for other jobs, but there is little halal jobs here. Don't say quit because you ain't paying my pills. I guess if you don't say quit, there is no third option but just don't say it!
What sort of medication do you take? Is it for something terminal?
:lol: Good eyes :up:
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So you rather please gaal af qarmuun instead of following the sunnah of our beloved prophet csw, ilaaha ka baq...remember if you give up somthing for Allah swt he will replace it with somthing better.
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Re: Guy topic. Beard or no beard

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934 wrote:
uglybrother wrote:I guess I can't say guy topic because girls might want their men to have beard, trim it or none at all. Anyways, I feel less of a man every time I shave my beard, and I hate it! When I say beard, I mean all the hair on the face. The chin as well as the sides, and even under the adam's apple :) . Now the reason I made this thread is because my job requires to be cut clean :evil: ! I am looking for other jobs, but there is little halal jobs here. Don't say quit because you ain't paying my pills. I guess if you don't say quit, there is no third option but just don't say it!
What sort of medication do you take? Is it for something terminal?
You don't gotta punish me like that for misspelling yo.
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HELWAA wrote:So you rather please gaal af qarmuun instead of following the sunnah of our beloved prophet csw, ilaaha ka baq...remember if you give up somthing for Allah swt he will replace it with somthing better.
How am I pleasing a gaal? I got phone, insurance, rent, food, utilities and more to pay. If I quit, suddenly I got no place to even sit and be lazy at. I get your drift by the way.
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personally i prefer shaving my beard rather than having a beard.
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uglybrother wrote:
HELWAA wrote:So you rather please gaal af qarmuun instead of following the sunnah of our beloved prophet csw, ilaaha ka baq...remember if you give up somthing for Allah swt he will replace it with somthing better.
How am I pleasing a gaal? I got phone, insurance, rent, food, utilities and more to pay. If I quit, suddenly I got no place to even sit and be lazy at. I get your drift by the way.
Who gave you the ability to work in the first place, who gave you that eyesight, ur hands ur legs etc etc.Allah is the one who provide who blessed you with ur brain.And he can take all that from you in a heartbeat just to teach you a lesson.
Tell ur boss how ur bread is important to you and fear Allah instead of a khansiir eater.

Beards are beautiful. :up:

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If one shaves the beard not as a sign of disobedience but rather out of necessity to self preserve or safeguard other's who are dependent on them then on grounds of "intentional" innocence one is adviced to seek clarity from their local Sheik.

In comparison to one who has a fashioned or style facial hair i would hope the above is in a more forgivable position.
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Re: Guy topic. Beard or no beard

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HELWAA wrote:
uglybrother wrote:
HELWAA wrote:So you rather please gaal af qarmuun instead of following the sunnah of our beloved prophet csw, ilaaha ka baq...remember if you give up somthing for Allah swt he will replace it with somthing better.
How am I pleasing a gaal? I got phone, insurance, rent, food, utilities and more to pay. If I quit, suddenly I got no place to even sit and be lazy at. I get your drift by the way.
Who gave you the ability to work in the first place, who gave you that eyesight, ur hands ur legs etc etc.Allah is the one who provide who blessed you with ur brain.And he can take all that from you in a heartbeat just to teach you a lesson.
Tell ur boss how ur bread is important to you and fear Allah instead of a khansiir eater.

Beards are beautiful. :up:

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I am aware and thankful for all the abilities and blessings allah has bestowed upon me. That is not the topic because I don't recant being ungrateful to allah. Consider I take your advise and leave my job and sit home, is there a guarantee that money will start flowing into my house as a replacement or a reward from allah? Sounds like a question a person with no knowledge of Islam and god would ask doesn't it? Thought so.
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Re: Guy topic. Beard or no beard

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I already have beard growing and I expect my beard to be fully grown by time I get to Uni. I'm keeping my beards because I heard it's attractive for religious girls, exactly what I'm looking for.
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Re: Guy topic. Beard or no beard

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Put ur trust in Allah brother and remember this ayah:


"And whosoever fears Allaah and keeps his duty to Him, He will make a way for him to get out (from every difficulty). And He will provide him from (sources) he never could imagine" [al-Talaaq 65:2-3]




The choice is urs.Do what you want laakin xasuusno aakhiro way ka danbaysa.
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Re: Guy topic. Beard or no beard

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I grow my beard but I shave my cheeks if that makes sense. In addition, I always get my sideburns done really slim and not as shown on the image helwa provided of the prince, it really irritates me if I do.
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Re: Guy topic. Beard or no beard

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Shoot im trying my best but my beard is not even. I want to trim the sides to make it even but im scared ima f up.
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