I don't have a good relationship with my father!

[OliveOil]

We have the same exact personality and we butt heads almost all the time...I can't remember a time when he amaaned me...he is always caayin me and when I ask him why....he replies by saying its a Reer Mudug dhaqan to be hard on ur kid...which doesn't make sense at all wallahi...I also cannot wait to leave this house so I don't go through his never ending 21 questions a day....and his dissapointed stare...what have I done wrong?????? No one is perfect wallahi arrgggg this is killing me wallahi

[OliveOil]

This is weird...there is a double post of this topic!




Anyways, my father always says that "waan u ceeb qariyay, waan asturay sharaftiisa, and I'm a good person/daughter" yet he complains a lot as well

[haxxor]

Respect him, and be happy that he has raised you with all of his money and love.

[greenday]

Ka qalee quda, you will miss him when you leave, no man is ever going to love you like he does, your father would go to the end of the world for if he had to, another man do this? No

With that being said, i know when you feel like this you think anything is better than this.

[OliveOil]

Haxxor, I love him and respect him wallahi...there is no doubt about that!!!!!!!!!!! I just want him to be 100% pleased with me...but he isn't...and he gives me mixed feelings almost all the time...is he happy with the way I turned out to be or is he truly dissapointed??



Green, you feel me, right! I know there will never be a man like my father in my life...but I'm old enough to lead my own life now and I want to be left alone

[greenday]

Olive is your dad strict? i think everyone has their moment of "aaaa get out my hair". They are right most of the time sadly,and am always findin this out the hard way

Duqa hide and seek la ciyaar

[KingMJ]

Those are the traits of a really good father, you clash because he is always trying to motivate and push you to be better. He is taking a vested interest in you which shows he loves and cares about you, it also shows he thinks about what you do a lot so always wants to help you.

Its old school tough love and in the end of the day those are the best fathers

[Cali_Gaab]

Thats strange, usually fathers are much more affectionate towards their daughters and have a much stronger bond than their sons.

[Niya]

OliveOil, try to be patient with your Dad, afterall you will have your own place sooner or later.

[Samatr]

We have the same exact personality and we butt heads almost all the time...I can't remember a time when he amaaned me...he is always caayin me and when I ask him why....he replies by saying its a Reer Mudug dhaqan to be hard on ur kid...which doesn't make sense at all wallahi...I also cannot wait to leave this house so I don't go through his never ending 21 questions a day....and his dissapointed stare...what have I done wrong?????? No one is perfect wallahi arrgggg this is killing me wallahi

That's exactly how my dad acts and I smile while he does all that, that's how these old folk communicate.
he's never given me a compliment or anything that resembled one, the closest was one time we were driving to Georgia to visit family and he said you managed to get us here alive.

[DropkickMurphy]

It is probably because you are caasiyad. Fathers love their daughters more than anything else in the world.

[OliveOil]

I'm not caasiyad at all...in fact, I'm the most obedient towards my parents...and I care about aboo more than caruurta kale...I prepare his food...kolay anigu un buu wax kasta igu kalsoonyahay....yet he never compliments me and still yell at me for every little thing that I do and even blames me for how my sister dresses...mind u she is modest...but he wants wax more modest ah..


That's just one of the things aan iskaga hor imaano

[OliveOil]

We have the same exact personality and we butt heads almost all the time...I can't remember a time when he amaaned me...he is always caayin me and when I ask him why....he replies by saying its a Reer Mudug dhaqan to be hard on ur kid...which doesn't make sense at all wallahi...I also cannot wait to leave this house so I don't go through his never ending 21 questions a day....and his dissapointed stare...what have I done wrong?????? No one is perfect wallahi arrgggg this is killing me wallahi

That's exactly how my dad acts and I smile while he does all that, that's how these old folk communicate.
he's never given me a compliment or anything that resembled one, the closest was one time we were driving to Georgia to visit family and he said you managed to get us here alive.

So most Somali fathers act this way with their children..

[OliveOil]

Thats strange, usually fathers are much more affectionate towards their daughters and have a much stronger bond than their sons.

Lool he claims that he loves his daughters more but I Highly doubt it

[Methylamine]

All dads are like this.